"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is there an age you just won't bother with?

tomwesten27

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Is there an age of girls that you just wont bother pursuing/trying to fcuk?

I am in college and I deal with 18-23 year old girls all the time. They may be good to hook up with but the second they open there mouth I wanna shoot myself lol.

Once you graduate college and are in the working field for a few years..is it time to stop pursuing the younger 18-23 crowd? Now I am not saying if an 18 year old was laying naked on my bed that I would throw her out...but when do you say OKAY ENOUGH with these younger girls???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Paintballguy

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Why not fvck young girls? I was just banging a 20 year old. Will I consider a serious LTR, probably not, but they are fun to fvck. For me any 18+ year old is fair game.
 

Smok1nAce

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there good to **** but having an actual serious relationship is impossible and pointless.
 

Purefilth

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19 + is all game - prefer not to go much older than me though.
 

floydb25

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I used to think like this - then I realized that a lot of the older chicks were just as shallow, childish, and retarded... except they weren't as attractive. They weren't AS bad, of course, but still.

I look at everything from an individual perspective now, and focusing on types more than age. I don't think I'd go below 25, however, and this goes for everyone. They're just too immature, wild, bratty, care-free, irresponsible, drama- and status-obsessed, etc... can't tolerate juvenile behavior anymore. The girls are pretty hot, yea, but it doesn't end well. I can't relate to youngins anymore. What they think is cool is just dumb to me now. Everyone thinks *******s are cool, but they're just weak, insecure, cowardly, and useless... been through all that already. Gained nothing from it, really, other than what NOT to do. Young people are also more impatient and chase-minded, which I can't relate to anymore, either.

But I dunno... if a hot, young girl wanted the D - it'd be hard to refuse. Not putting myself in that position by hanging out with the young crowd, though. Did that even when I was 26, and it didn't end well. Wasn't into all the partying, drama, emotional chaos, etc, and didn't even fit in with those crowds. The young girls flocked to me, though, and all the young douchebag punks hated me. Ha Ha. Still seem to be attracting younger girls, but also more little bit older ones now that I've matured and such. Not a flamoyaunt, loud-mouth, AW douchebag anymore.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeMarron

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As far as sex is concerned any chick over 18 is good. A man is most likely setting himself up for failure if he wants a monogamous relationship with a young woman though.
 

crossedup

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sex yeah whatever if you're hot it's fair game. Relationship, I have an issue with dating a girl older than me, I want to be the older one since it gives me more of a feeling of being a protector. So I'll date younger girls only 18-23. Can be a headache, but you have to know you can't wear your emotions on your sleeve, or you're f*cked
 

Cremasta

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Fvck any girl who is legal and turns you on.

But for a relationship? Your age +/- 5 years. There's exceptions, but you'll have trouble connecting with girls outside that range.
 
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