"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is there a solution to being nearsighted and ...

AlphaNoob

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Whenever I go out, I try to not wear glasses so I don't portray the nerdy/intelligent persona. But, then I am not able to notice girls looking at me from a distance.
But if I do wear glasses, less girls would find me physically attractive.
I've tried contact lenses and they're a pain in the *ss, so I don't want to do that.

How can I get around this dilemma?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MatureDJ

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Well, there's eye surgery, but the problem with that is that your eyes are going to get presbyopic eventually, so you'll be wearing glasses later.

I have a theory that glasses are not as much of drawback. Any woman that has an Rx (e.g., using contacts or eye surgery) knows the feeling, and therefore is more likely to accept that her partner wears them as well.
 

EmotionalGeek

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Prolong time you were contacts gradually. First day an hour, second day 2 hours, third day 3 hours, and so on. After three weeks your eyes will get used to contacts and it won't be a problem. Also choose one day lenses instead of lenses that last month. Lenses with shorter period are softer and don't irritate eye that much.
 

wifehunter

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Forget about it.

I have an astigmatism (nearsighted) and wear glasses, and have no problem attracting the ladies.
 
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