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AlphaNoob

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Whenever I go out, I try to not wear glasses so I don't portray the nerdy/intelligent persona. But, then I am not able to notice girls looking at me from a distance.
But if I do wear glasses, less girls would find me physically attractive.
I've tried contact lenses and they're a pain in the *ss, so I don't want to do that.

How can I get around this dilemma?
 

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MatureDJ

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Well, there's eye surgery, but the problem with that is that your eyes are going to get presbyopic eventually, so you'll be wearing glasses later.

I have a theory that glasses are not as much of drawback. Any woman that has an Rx (e.g., using contacts or eye surgery) knows the feeling, and therefore is more likely to accept that her partner wears them as well.
 

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Prolong time you were contacts gradually. First day an hour, second day 2 hours, third day 3 hours, and so on. After three weeks your eyes will get used to contacts and it won't be a problem. Also choose one day lenses instead of lenses that last month. Lenses with shorter period are softer and don't irritate eye that much.
 

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Forget about it.

I have an astigmatism (nearsighted) and wear glasses, and have no problem attracting the ladies.
 
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