"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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is there a similar forum to this one for women?

aix237

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Just curious is there a similar forum that women go on to discuss the same things? I would like to see what they say about guys and there little games that they play. if anyone knows that would be great. Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GloriouslyInsane

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If you're male then you don't need to know,don't think that you can collect "intelligence" from the opposite side and use it to achieve your goals.It has been discussed before,women DO NOT know 99% of the time what they want.
 

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if your gonig to reply answer the question i asked if not then dont reply. so your saying you couldnt get info from them to help you out. thats retarded
 

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Well in that case i heard david d made a book for girls and there is a forum too,that's all i know.I do not know why people still look for more "info",the bible pretty much explains everything clearly.
 

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Its useless trying to go to a woman's forum and to understand their ways. No matter how long you stay there and read, you'll never 'get' how they work. Also, it'll be really boring, since it'll all be stuff like "and then he did this and i got so mad. i mean, it really hurt my feelings, you know? i felt like punching him. blah blah blah feelings blah blah blah emotions blah blah blah".

Rather than waste your time trying to learn their games, you should learn how to counter their games here! Everything you need is here. No need to stray, especially to a woman's forum.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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reallyfreakinlost said:
My mom told me to be a "nice guy" :p
mine too, i listened to her too, and look where i ended up
 
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