"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is There A Reason Why "WUSSISM" Is Very High In Good Guys

JezDuffield

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I read so many threads on here about "GOOD GUYS" being more prone to "WUSSISM" than the so called "BAD BOYS" are, but no one ever tells us of why this is the case.

Why can't a "GOOD GUY" be exciting and unpredictable and a challenge to a "HOT BABE".

I can't understand why a "GOOD GUY" can't be outgoing and confident and "THE LEADER OF THE PACK".

Most people say that "GOOD GUYS" can attract the "HOT BABES" if they are not "WUSSES", but is there a real reason why "BAD BOYS" are less likely to be a "WUSS" than a "GOOD GUY"

It seems as if "WUSSISM" is rampant in the "GOOD GUYS" and almost non existent in the "BAD BOYS", why is this the case I ask you.

Most people will tell you that the majority of "HOT BABES" prefer a "GOOD GUY" who isn't a "WUSS" over a "BAD BOY" who also isn't one, but that there are very few "GOOD GUYS" available who are not "WUSSES", why is "WUSSISM" a trait mainly in "GOOD GUYS", does anyone know why this is the case. :rock:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Because "Good Guys" follow all the rules, and "Bad Guys" break all of them.
 

JezDuffield

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I have seen very highly educated guys who were Lawyers, Doctors, etc, who even though they followed the rules of the system to a high degree and wore suits, but are still considered as "BAD BOYS", this seems strange to me, is it more the "PERSONALITY" than the "BREAKING OF RULES" that makes one a "BAD BOY". :crazy:
 

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Good Guys have this implied "WUSS" to them. It's a society thing, you're good so you follow all the rules, act perfect, etc. (wuss-like behavior) even if you're not a wuss. The good guy needs to make sure that even "IF" he wants to follow most of the rules that he has the confidence and ability to change/break the rules when it's necessary.

You act anyway you want, say whatever you want, do whatever you want, and just generally be you without caring what anyone (even the girl you're attracted too) thinks about it. It's this trait that bad boys have that attracts women to them. You have to have "no care in the outcome" and that's when you become the Prize.

Women know this so they do it naturally. They know they're going to get pursued by some guy no matter what they look like, say, etc. and then they weed them out (the ones they're attracted to) from there. Guys should do the opposite, you pursue the ones you want, however you want to do it, and then you weed them out as well.

I don't care anymore about women, (it took me a long time to get this way, especially when you do care about sex), but it works. I can usually get a lot of women, but sometimes I do pick from the ones I haven't noticed, but still find attractive, because they were approaching me! :D
 
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