"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is there a point when a rich & powerful man is just too ugly to get even an older women?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about the sexual harassment suit filed by the MILF-y ex-Miss-America Gretchen Carlson against her boss Roger Ailes, and some of the responses to the story got me thinking.

http://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/gretchen-carlson-sues-roger-ailes-sexual-harrassment
If this isn't the most unf@ckable person in the world, I don't know who is.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/life...b8ef28-438d-11e6-88d0-6adee48be8bc_story.html
Jabba and Leia in Episode VI comes to mind.
OK, for a 50 year old, Carlson is definitely bangable, but she is 50 years old, and it would seem that an available woman in her position should find a powerful man attractive, yet the commenters seem to think that "Jabba" would be beneath her (pun not intended). (NOTE: Carlson is married, and one would assume happily; I am bringing up this issue in general, not as specific.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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Even 50 yrs old women nowadays believe they are hot and thats not their fault, its mens fault.

This whole "milf" madness is out of control, its no different than having a fetish for fatties except that fatties are not celebrated in media and culture and men dont brag about banging one (not yet at least).

I also dont see whats so special about "milfs" basically every woman gets old.

Regarding the fat guy, while it takes a lot of work to look great, it takes a little less to be in shape and even less to be decent while it doesnt take much not to be too ugly.
 

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Look at Howard Stern. He is lanky & as ugly as they come. He is 62, and has been married to his 43yo hottie model wife for close to 8yrs now. Before that they dated for close to 7yrs.
 

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I think it's a case of sour grapes...... her ratings were down, she got fired. BUT it can't be HER fault, so she comes up with this....
 

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Dear MDJ,
Coming back to your original question,"Ïs there a point at which a rich and powerful Man is too ugly to get even an older Woman"....Short answer No!...Be he fat,ugly,dwarfed a modern day Quasimodo or Frankenstein...As long as he can move,some money hungry Bvitch will grab him...Oh and if he can't move she will give him a shove LOL.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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