"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is there a limited window of time to become romantically involved?

Lexington

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Let's say you know some girls decently well. You've known them for at least the better part of a year. They consider you friends, but they're not in your closest circle of friends. You often socialize with them at the same parties and they might be your colleagues or classmates. You know what they're basically all about and they know what you're all about too.

At that point, is it too late to establish a romantic relationship? Do they already think of you as a friend?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

clutch83

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i personally think that could go both ways, girls tend to read situations differently they guys do, she could be attracted to you and just kept it to herself, i have had a couple of girls that i have been "friends" with come out and tell me some surprising things that they have though about me

honestly you just need to get her aside and find out what she thinks about you and what kind of relationship yall are gonna have
 

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always get your flirt on the women you are interested in..do not wait ..it's part of you. She knows and you know, there is no doubt!!!
 
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