"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is there a DJ type forum for women?

st_99

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I would actually like to check it out and compare and gather some info..?

Anybody know of any?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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don't know of any...sorry!

I do know there's a 'The Rules 1' and another 'The Rules 2' books for women. They're both bestsellers I think. :trouble:
 

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ER!C L!VE said:
LOL thanks for that link. It's interesting to see what they talk about. I think the biggest difference is that they all talk about their "relationships". I didn't see one thread on how to FIND a man. They have no problem getting us..........it's KEEPING us that's the challenge for them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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st_99 said:
I would actually like to check it out and compare and gather some info..?

Anybody know of any?
There are more women PLAYERS out there than men. The only thing is that the best men players are considerably better than women. But in numbers, there are a LOT more women out there that play and manipulate men with their little games and drama...some even better than the so called men "djs".

The thing is...if you are READING or LISTENING to what a woman says INSTEAD of WATCHING what she DOES...then you are WASTING your time.
 
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