"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is there a DJ type forum for women?

st_99

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I would actually like to check it out and compare and gather some info..?

Anybody know of any?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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don't know of any...sorry!

I do know there's a 'The Rules 1' and another 'The Rules 2' books for women. They're both bestsellers I think. :trouble:
 

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ER!C L!VE said:
LOL thanks for that link. It's interesting to see what they talk about. I think the biggest difference is that they all talk about their "relationships". I didn't see one thread on how to FIND a man. They have no problem getting us..........it's KEEPING us that's the challenge for them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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st_99 said:
I would actually like to check it out and compare and gather some info..?

Anybody know of any?
There are more women PLAYERS out there than men. The only thing is that the best men players are considerably better than women. But in numbers, there are a LOT more women out there that play and manipulate men with their little games and drama...some even better than the so called men "djs".

The thing is...if you are READING or LISTENING to what a woman says INSTEAD of WATCHING what she DOES...then you are WASTING your time.
 
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