"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is there a DJ forum tailored for black guys?

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kody_starr

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Player Supreme is all about approach invitations and "being chosen."

Warrior74 said:
I know about you and Supreme's beef. But if you don't know what he teaches, what he really teaches, you might want to take a look at it. I've looked through everything from Mystery method, to Juggler, to the DJ bible and I've gotten more out of Supreme's way than any of those. Look to the message and look beyond the messenger.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thedude4242

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I agree with ketostix. black men have access and the opportunity with every black woman plus the white girls who are into black guys. you know how many woman that we all know that we say hey she a girl who likes black guys. when dealing with white woman who like black guys, a black man can talk to them for a few minutes. you can get that just because you are black. however I know a lot of white men see black woman and think they dont want us. in all honesty though white men are only interested in maybe 5% of black woman and maybe 1% for a relationship. why do you think black guys like white woman? because they are the best.
 
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