Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is there a DJ forum tailored for black guys?

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I think being a DJ is different for different races. I'm mostly attracted to women outside my race. I like black girls, but only the non-ghettofied, non-babymama black women. However, there are unique challenges I must face as a black guy if I'm trying to get with a white, hispanic, asian, etc.

It's great that more people are open to interracial dating, but white girls are still a bit hesitant when seeing a black guy since peer pressure and family pressure often decides who she gets serious with. I think white girls would be okay with seeing a black guy short term, but not long-term or marriage. I would like to marry outside my race whenever I decide to get married.

A lot of the tips on these forums can be applied to my game, but I know this forum is made up mostly of white guys and frankly, you guys have it the easiest (IMO) with every race.

Therefore, does anyone know of a forum that's dedicated to black guys improving their game and the unique challenges we face?

This is a serious question.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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becomeaplayer.com was created by a black guy I think.
 

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mack tactics is by far the most appropriate venacular i have seen. Now any ghetto gurl (white or black) require different seduction tactics. Tons of white women ONLY date black men, not cause they be ghetto licisious or gangsta luvin type of men but due to their confidence, smoothness.

Men of confidence, humor, charm always prevail over treatin dem b itches like a hoe mentality. I know FLAVA OF LUV with the imfamous flava flav portrayed that once you go black you never go back persona is the way to go......but did U see was all the drama that goes with them ghetto gurls.

If you are a man of color then you should be shooting for the "DENZEL" persona, an intelligent, funny, confident man. TOTALLY FLIP the script of how certain white females perceive da black man.

Now U think you got problems, we white guys are all confused cause we dont know if were suppose to be representin, keeping it real, up in your grill, doing the stanky leg, the list goes on and on.
 

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I have to disagree with you here man. I'm a black guy and I mostly approach white girls and I talk them the same way I talk to girls of any race and get interest. However, I don't have much experience approaching black girls though.

Also you have to realize, someone are just not gonna be attracted. You just got to move on to the next set.
 

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ElStud said:
I have to disagree with you here man. I'm a black guy and I mostly approach white girls and I talk them the same way I talk to girls of any race and get interest. However, I don't have much experience approaching black girls though.

Also you have to realize, someone are just not gonna be attracted. You just got to move on to the next set.

Elstud is black?

WOWWW

:D

@The OP"s question, this forum is the best out there, some other once but their more designed for "players"or "macks" they will teach you how to "Find a ho" and "mindfcuK" a "ho" or how to find a ho and have her "breaking you off with bread" but they won't teach you how to find a "women" and be in a relationship of substance

The Tariq Nasheed boards are some of the better once(although it has it's negatives and postives), any other board I would be "weary" of. Make sure you check the agenda of the boards and what they are trying to teach. Some boards/forums have backwards mentality

peace
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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War Against Betaism said:
becomeaplayer.com was created by a black guy I think.

Wow that site just visually screams money making PUA site with the latest greatest magical words and scripts.

To the OP. I would suggest working on your inner game. Check out Zenmack.com Player Supreme focuses more on the macking part of the game, but his inner game work is serious business.

I think picking a target race to date in the game is weak. You should get in where you fit in and with who treats you the way you want to be treated. It's no better than the sad fat white guy who says he's going to southeast Asia to find a wife because American women are shyt. It's weak man game to be honest. Those who can't play in the NFL diss it and go play arena football and claim its better, but deep down they know it's not.

I say step every aspect of your game up. Go after which women are choosing you and talk to a brother like Player Supreme who has dated women from every race. You might not like his tough talk, but if you know what's up you might learn something.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Wow that site just visually screams money making PUA site with the latest greatest magical words and scripts.

To the OP. I would suggest working on your inner game. Check out Zenmack.com Player Supreme focuses more on the macking part of the game, but his inner game work is serious business.

I think picking a target race to date in the game is weak. You should get in where you fit in and with who treats you the way you want to be treated. It's no better than the sad fat white guy who says he's going to southeast Asia to find a wife because American women are shyt. It's weak man game to be honest. Those who can't play in the NFL diss it and go play arena football and claim its better, but deep down they know it's not.

I say step every aspect of your game up. Go after which women are choosing you and talk to a brother like Player Supreme who has dated women from every race. You might not like his tough talk, but if you know what's up you might learn something.
Player supreme aka Master bator?

you serious?

:rolleyes:
 

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Player supreme aka Master bator?

you serious?

:rolleyes:
I know about you and Supreme's beef. But if you don't know what he teaches, what he really teaches, you might want to take a look at it. I've looked through everything from Mystery method, to Juggler, to the DJ bible and I've gotten more out of Supreme's way than any of those. Look to the message and look beyond the messenger.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I know about you and Supreme's beef. But if you don't know what he teaches, what he really teaches, you might want to take a look at it. I've looked through everything from Mystery method, to Juggler, to the DJ bible and I've gotten more out of Supreme's way than any of those. Look to the message and look beyond the messenger.

I can't speak for no one else, but in the end. I learned a lot more going out by myself then any of those cats you mentioned. Anyone whose ever gone out with me (whether it be cats on here who I met or cats I know In real life) knows I don't do any method or anything like that, and trust me I know what Supreme teachers I've listened to more then enough of his podcast(and lies) and its nothing he teaches that I already as a black man don't know. I have nothing agaisnt being direct, but Indirect works just as well, what it all comes down to is, if your inner game is tight, you don't need a "method" or any of that at all. A real "player" can go into any situation utltize his enivorment to benefit him, you gotta have versatlity as a "player". Imgaine if Michael Jordan could only drive to the basket and dunk and not shoot the jumper or post up, would he still be considered the greastest bball player? I don't think so

peace
 

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Solomon said:
I can't speak for no one else, but in the end. I learned a lot more going out by myself then any of those cats you mentioned. Anyone whose ever gone out with me (whether it be cats on here who I met or cats I know In real life) knows I don't do any method or anything like that, and trust me I know what Supreme teachers I've listened to more then enough of his podcast(and lies) and its nothing he teaches that I already as a black man don't know. I have nothing agaisnt being direct, but Indirect works just as well, what it all comes down to is, if your inner game is tight, you don't need a "method" or any of that at all. A real "player" can go into any situation utltize his enivorment to benefit him, you gotta have versatlity as a "player". Imgaine if Michael Jordan could only drive to the basket and dunk and not shoot the jumper or post up, would he still be considered the greastest bball player? I don't think so

peace
The OP asked a question, I gave him an answer.

its nothing he teaches that I already as a black man don't know.
Hurray for you. It's the OP who's asking, not you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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COD said:
mack tactics is by far the most appropriate venacular i have seen. Now any ghetto gurl (white or black) require different seduction tactics. Tons of white women ONLY date black men, not cause they be ghetto licisious or gangsta luvin type of men but due to their confidence, smoothness.

Men of confidence, humor, charm always prevail over treatin dem b itches like a hoe mentality. I know FLAVA OF LUV with the imfamous flava flav portrayed that once you go black you never go back persona is the way to go......but did U see was all the drama that goes with them ghetto gurls.

If you are a man of color then you should be shooting for the "DENZEL" persona, an intelligent, funny, confident man. TOTALLY FLIP the script of how certain white females perceive da black man.

Now U think you got problems, we white guys are all confused cause we dont know if were suppose to be representin, keeping it real, up in your grill, doing the stanky leg, the list goes on and on.
Wow.

Anyway, hang out with White (or Latin or Asian) guys. It is a DHV for women of that race and helps you overcome SOME of the problems that you might face with them.
 

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For the main question, hell if i know.

There seem to be challenges, like if a white, asian, etc. girl is holding your hand downtown, people will look at you strange. Of course, it's a faux pas.

You still gotta be confident and it kinda is a different level of game. I'm black too, so I feel your agony.
 

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Warrior74 said:
The OP asked a question, I gave him an answer.



Hurray for you. It's the OP who's asking, not you.

OF course (lol @ you backtracking like KG after sucker punching Rip Hamiliton)

But to give the OP an Idea of who is dealing with, why not let him decide for himself

http://www.revolution31.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6950
^^when being a "guru" goes wrong, sad thing is dude is 50 years old

Just stating facts

OP SS is better then anysite you gonna find out there including zenmack (if zenamck was that good cats wouldn't be trying to advertise it every second like its the mecca of game, when there only 10 guys posting :rolleyes:)
 
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lol @ elstud being black, that just made my day.

As for the whole 'white guys got it easier' mentality... I beg to differ. As a black guy this is the one stereotype u can use to your advantage really, lol.

Anyways there are a handful of black posters on the site that post decently with a varying view of things. There aren't much who go after the black girls either so that would be advantageous for you to stay on the site.

Check out this post for starters, I think its right up your alley.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158261
 

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Solomon said:
But to give the OP an Idea of who is dealing with, why not let him decide for himself
)
Exactly. Instead of poisoning the well, let the guy look at the content for himself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well chances are if the OP isn't into women that who are "ghettofied" and "babymamas" then he probably won't be interested in the male counterpart commonly known as Player Supreme and affectionately known as Masterbator.

If his racism doesn't turn off the OP his gay bashing might, or his views on religion or perhaps his general close minded view on everything in the world? The OP doesn't sound ignorant so I can't see PS helping much...
 
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Warrior,

I am mixed black and white.. Mom is white, so maybe that explains why I am only attracted to females that are lighter than me (White, Asian, Hispanic).. I am almost 25 and all my serious gf's and most hook ups have been with white girls. My girlfriend right now is a white girl.

It is true that a lot of people aren't ready for interracial dating, but it happens man. It's not at all as "taboo" as it was 10 years ago.

That being said, I have my stuff together, have a good career, speak well, have confidence in who I am, and honestly, have never had an issue with any parents. I think the main reason is I wouldn't date a woman who needed her family's approval and who didn't have the confidence to be her own woman.

Just find out what you want and get her dude
 

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I think picking a target race to date in the game is weak. You should get in where you fit in and with who treats you the way you want to be treated. It's no better than the sad fat white guy who says he's going to southeast Asia to find a wife because American women are shyt. It's weak man game to be honest. Those who can't play in the NFL diss it and go play arena football and claim its better, but deep down they know it's not.


Couldn't have put it any better. It kind of irritates me when I see ppl doing that.
 

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Exactly. Instead of poisoning the well, let the guy look at the content for himself.

Damn Warrior you really gonna "dodge" the bullet like that? (I guess truth hurts huh?)
lol @ you cutting the link out (tsk tsk my dude, tsk tsk)
I guess you don't condone your favorite guru by posting unde the pseudo name of "master bator" like it's all good?

It explains a lot with him posting links to his d*ck and the way yall zenmack cats hug dudes scortum.
 

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This post is golden.


Solomon said:
Damn Warrior you really gonna "dodge" the bullet like that? (I guess truth hurts huh?)
lol @ you cutting the link out (tsk tsk my dude, tsk tsk)
I guess you don't condone your favorite guru by posting unde the pseudo name of "master bator" like it's all good?

It explains a lot with him posting links to his d*ck and the way yall zenmack cats hug dudes scortum.
I'm not here to fight supreme's battles. I'm here like eveyone else, to share information I've learned and to learn some new things. If you got a problem with that guy, take it up with him. If you got a problem with me personally, send me a PM, bickering isn't helping the OP. I don't know you, so I'm not here to fight you.

I'm gonna say this to the OP, take what you need, discard the rest, I say that for every guru out there. Read em all, look at the content, apply it in real life and roll with what works for you. I can't see how anyone can disagree with that.

Hell I wouldn't have come to this site if Supreme wasn't always calling it Sosymp....but there is good information and great posters here. The MM forum is golden. And I've learned a lot here.

Solomon, you might want to ask me what it is I really think, what it is that I've learned instead of moaning about someone you don't like. You seem to be under the wrong impression of who I am.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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