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Is there a difference between kino and physical affection?

Tomo

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Is there a difference between kino and simply physical affection? I.e. the hug or touch as opposed to play fighting, hi5's or fist bumping between you and a girl? E.g. a certain female I am physical, involves more play fighting, her pushing me, body on body bumping etc - not really anything with a sexual undertone. Is that still considered kino or is that detrimental making you seem more of a friend as opposed to something else?

^Not asking question ON any particular girl but in general. Happy New Years all!
 

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CaptainSaveAh0

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Anything physical with a female is good but make sure you give out subtle hints about what you want. "play fighting" can just be something she does with all her guy friends unless you are play fighting with her on your bed. Then that's a different story.
 
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