"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is the word 'bossy' damaging to women?

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Facebook chief executive Sheryl Sandberg and American Girl Scouts chief Anna Maria Chavez are leading a campaign to discourage the use of the word "bossy". Does the term destroy the confidence of young girls, asks Tom Heyden.

The campaign claims that terms like "bossy" are disproportionately applied to females, preventing schoolgirls from seeing themselves as future "leaders".
Full story here http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-magazine-monitor-26543719

I just shake my head.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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American Girl Scouts chief Anna Maria Chavez

That b!tch makes her living bossing around child-slaves. They just raised the price for a box of cookies to $5. For every box sold, the little girls get 50 cents and that cvnt keeps the rest.
 

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I really wish I had as many excuses to fail as women do.

No seriously...

I think I would get fired if I told someone at work I failed because they were to bossy.


HAHAHAHAHAH ROFL
 

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Oh shıt, who wants pie?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It won't get better until all these baby boomer pieces of **** die off, they have all the time in the world retired to push social issues that they were too busy in the past ****ing everyone else in the 80's and 90's. There is a .gif I'm thinking of with a woman sucking ten ****s and loving it, should put a "BOSSY" title on that and send it back to them.
 

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Seems someone has too much time on their hands. Couldn't she find some real social issue to campaign on? "Bossy" is just what we call women when we would call a man an a-hole. Would she prefer a-hole?
 
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