"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is the South the worst place to game women

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It seems like it is purely social circle game here unless you are Mr. Wilkes from Gone With the Wind or Gage the flashy redneck. Not just girls, but meeting new people in general. All good trustworthy girls exclusively date from a select few of their social circle from their home town. That leaves you with picky sluts and trashy sluts that are okay with sleeping with minorities. If you are a person of color than good look with the trashy nobody wants type of women. God, I hope this type of field only exists in the south.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dhoulmagus said:
It seems like it is purely social circle game here unless you are Mr. Wilkes from Gone With the Wind or Gage the flashy redneck. Not just girls, but meeting new people in general. All good trustworthy girls exclusively date from a select few of their social circle from their home town. That leaves you with picky sluts and trashy sluts that are okay with sleeping with minorities. If you are a person of color than good look with the trashy nobody wants type of women. God, I hope this type of field only exists in the south.
No the south isn't the worst place to game women..Posting on So Suave is. :crazy:
 

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I'd imagine Ethiopa (poverty stricken Africa) is worse for gaming than the South of America.
 

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Espi said:
Why don't you move to the North? Life is perfect there, I'm sure. No racists whatsoever.

Seems like you've convinced yourself that being black in Mississippi means you're that hopeless because you can't sarge the white Southern belles.

And while you're at it, Google search these folks:

Freedom Riders;
James Meredith;
Medgar Evers


Seems to me like they had a HELLUVA much harder time being black and living in the South.
are you high, the north blows! id never ever advise anyone to move up here lol. down south you have beaches and sun 24/7 with some rain. OP wtf kind of drugs are you on?
 

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I'm thinking of moving to the South!! Much nicer women, yes you have many fatties, but you also have legit ones who are down to earth.

If you think the South is hard, try coming to California!! Full of self-entitled gold digging bishes out here!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think a gay pride parade may be a worse place to game women than the south but not sure. However, if your looking for some snow bunnies who dig black guys you'll find them in Chicago or Indianapolis.
 

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skinnyguy said:
I'm thinking of moving to the South!! Much nicer women, yes you have many fatties, but you also have legit ones who are down to earth.

If you think the South is hard, try coming to California!! Full of self-entitled gold digging bishes out here!
Southern girls are either hot southern belles or white trash. The belles are pretty much locked up for you, so have fun with the trash.
 

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JohnChops said:
are you high, the north blows! id never ever advise anyone to move up here lol. down south you have beaches and sun 24/7 with some rain. OP wtf kind of drugs are you on?
I live 8 hours from the nearest beach and it is humid as **** all the time. I hate the snow and cold, but I would switch better people for worse weather any day.
 

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The real question is how good would an Indian Race Troll do out in the field rather than posting on 25+ forums with countless usernames, hundreds of threads, thousands of posts on how X race would do with another race in X location and how bad the South svcks for years on end.

A few good psychitrists need to do numerous "field reports" on that type of "specimen".


Get help O.P. Seriously.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dhoulmagus

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HumbleNinja said:
The real question is how good would an Indian Race Troll do out in the field rather than posting on 25+ forums with countless usernames, hundreds of threads, thousands of posts on how X race would do with another race in X location and how bad the South svcks for years on end.

A few good psychitrists need to do numerous "field reports" on that type of "specimen".


Get help O.P. Seriously.
omg, I love NYC. I miss that place sooooo muchh!!! :)
 

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JohnChops said:
the north blows! id never ever advise anyone to move up here lol.
^This. The ONLY reason I'm in the North is because of a job. Otherwise, I would have left years ago.

It's cliquey and social circle to the 10th power. You are only "allowed" to talk to people you already know or friends of friends. It's taboo to talk to strangers here. After 15 years, I still don't know the names of my next door neighbors lol.
 

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Really? I live in the Northeast and there are many people who talk to strangers or are open to talking to strangers. Sometimes it just depends on the venue you go to. I dont tend to go to snobby places, and for the most part most people have been open to my random conversations.
 

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Jaylan said:
Really? I live in the Northeast and there are many people who talk to strangers or are open to talking to strangers. Sometimes it just depends on the venue you go to. I dont tend to go to snobby places, and for the most part most people have been open to my random conversations.
New York City is different. New Yorkers are very chatty. I like that.

But southern New England is very reserved.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I took my wife to new york when we were engaged. i'd clean up house if i lived there.
 

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theres plenty of good white women here who date interracially. but if you bust into a church meeting full of southern right wing minded white people like where all da white women at? yeah chances of success are usually slim.
i saw a gamertag on xbl awhile back called "ifiwaswhite". was that you? lol
 

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Dhoulmagus, learn to win here, win anywhere.

Accept the challenge.
Whine some more.
Give up and go your own way.
Move.

Those are your options. Pick one.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
the flashy redneck.
Dhoulmagus said:
or white trash.
Easy there Sambo, This is about how you can't get white tail remember, lets not get all uppity.

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omg, I love NYC. I miss that place sooooo muchh!!! :)
Maybe you're struggling with the white chicks because you sound like a faggot cast extra from sex and the city? Talking like a facebooking team Jacob tween is probably not helping your cause.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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