"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is the solution for incels simply to set up therapy groups like Alcoholics Anonymous?

sangheilios

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I think we should execute anyone who hasn’t had sex in 2 years or is a virgin by 26 years old. Give all their possessions and property to the government to share out to immigrants in each country starting with men aged 18-30 then to women and children.

Let’s see how difficult dating really is and who’s just a weirdo that we really don’t need reproducing anyway.
Dumbest **** I've ever read, it's pretty well known that in western society the people that reproduce the most are overall the most inferior. You don't see highly educated, successful individuals having droves of children, in fact they are often childless.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interesting points. If I look at movies after midnight or into 2:00 am then it shows on the body the next day. I have this "drugged-out" look that not even a mug of coffee can cure. If you look "out of it" you can't get a non-verbal rapport which you need before landing a convo.
Yeah, the blue light is bad in older age, so I bought some "gunners" (yellow tint). While it helps, I STILL feel like a drugged out, spaced out, dead eyed stumbling baffoon in the days and almost weeks after stopping. It's about breathing right and moving around which will make you "look" your best (bloodflow I guess, and women/men certainly notice - you can't be your best at work).
 

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Honestly, the incel "epidemic" is probably as blown out of proportion as the campus rape epidemic and racial hate crimes. It's not real, it's just that women have latched on to the incel moniker because it has proven to make a lot of men react emotionally. Which exactly what no man should do, it's just a **** test and you out yourself if you react to it.

therapy groups like AA become as addictive as the drug they wish to suppress. I really don't see what a bunch of incels together can accomplish other than feed the red pill rage, they need to relate with people who have sexual success and learn from them, the blind can't lead the blind.
Its definitely blown up but, women don't know about it till the wall. There's definitely a significant predisposition in sexual access in men and women. Again, a hierarchy between Chad and your average Joe. There's definitely mpre to life than pandering to women and sex, falling prey to your biology in pathetic fashion. I think something of a rite of passage and men coming together is a good idea. Its also ideal to be mindful why women atrack men getting together. Why the red pill sub is closed or château heartsie is gone from word press. The rite of passion and having a purpose is the mark. Not chasing women and world.
 

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Yeah, the blue light is bad in older age, so I bought some "gunners" (yellow tint). While it helps, I STILL feel like a drugged out, spaced out, dead eyed stumbling baffoon in the days and almost weeks after stopping. It's about breathing right and moving around which will make you "look" your best (bloodflow I guess, and women/men certainly notice - you can't be your best at work).
I found this app to be wonderful at attenuating blue light:
 
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Heartiste used to say that the goal of feminism was to increase women's power in the sexual marketplace, while at the same time decreasing men's. This is obvious when you look at the course our society has taken over the past few decades.

It's a double-edged sword for women, though, because while they may be free to get sex on demand, they aren't finding lasting relationships with stable family lives anymore. And this just perpetuates the malaise, as childless women look for meaning in their lives and end up latching onto "women's rights" more often than not.

The rise of PUA as a response to feminism, while a logical step for men, only added to the problem.

I don't see a way out of our current predicament, barring a complete collapse.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heartiste used to say that the goal of feminism was to increase women's power in the sexual marketplace, while at the same time decreasing men's. This is obvious when you look at the course our society has taken over the past few decades.

It's a double-edged sword for women, though, because while they may be free to get sex on demand, they aren't finding lasting relationships with stable family lives anymore. And this just perpetuates the malaise, as childless women look for meaning in their lives and end up latching onto "women's rights" more often than not.

The rise of PUA as a response to feminism, while a logical step for men, only added to the problem.

I don't see a way out of our current predicament, barring a complete collapse.
The often held view by the Red Pill community is that feminism ruins everything.

But then feminism is as old as humanity itself since its the feminine imperative.

A biologically induced imperative by nature or by God.

What has actually change is not feminism, its masculinity or rather the absence of it.

The rise of PUA culture is actually the starting point where men mold themselves to suit the feminine imperative, playing by its rules, within the playground of women.

In that playground, women are the masters.

And yet men complain when they willingly go there, like lambs to the slaughter.

This is actually the decline of masculinity that's being perpetuated by men for other men to follow.

The blind leading the blind towards light.

Irony huh.
 

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problem: ugly fat women dont want to sleep with ugly fat men, and even with average men, they wait for high value men (lol2)

solution:
1.reeducate women
2.ban social media,dating apps and other internet validation
3.tell incels to improve

3. doesnt work because it will just set the sex requirement bar higher for whole population (what will happen if 100% of men will improve? exactly that)

2. government is not redpilled enough to ban validation websites and apps, also they would get TONSSSS of hate from women and white knights, which could result in them losing the good job with sickly high payments

1. well no uh wont happen


legalizing prostition and encouraging women to do it and stopping slutshamming could do the trick, maybe (prices would be much cheaper if a lot of women wanted to do it and it was legal)
 
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