"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is the "sexless marriage" the ultimate beta submission?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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devilkingx2

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've taken all sorts of shyt for openly saying I don't want a career girl, like feminine women. This was seen as outright misogyny.
To be fair it depends on the career. Some careers will provide you with a really attractive woman that's also loaded.

I dunno why idiots think that wanting a feminine woman is bad though. That ones just mind boggling (although it's okay if she has masculine hobbies, more fun to play games than talk about celebrity gossip)

I'm dating an Asian chick who is much younger and the suggestion is this is some sort of "exploititive" relationship.
Cougar jealousy

Found out a few months back he broke down when drunk and revealed his Mrs
Did you ever hear about that study that says men who help with the housework actually get less sex?
 

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The career thing is about priorities. I want kids and 99% of my friends (who have career women) want to wait until they are 39 before they have 1 child, because they prioritise career over family, and I can't think of a less attractive trait in a woman.
For me i just wouldn't want a woman who has no free time or is always tired or complaining about her job or whatever.

Wanting to have kids late sounds like a positive, they take a lot of time energy and money that could be spent on other things. I dunno why anyone would wanna have kids earlier than they have to.

The feminine thing, the line I got was "so I am not allowed to have a career or male interests" to which I explained - yes, you are, I just don't find those girls attractive. Angry looks - I then pointed out all their BF/HB are fairly alpha, none are nannies or wimps, so why not chose a feminine man. Silence.
male interests can be a good thing, if that means stuff like playing games, watching sports and going to strip clubs rather than getting into bar fights and acting tough lol

I fully agree on the rest though
 

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Wanting to have kids late sounds like a positive, they take a lot of time energy and money that could be spent on other things. I dunno why anyone would wanna have kids earlier than they have to.
Uh, maybe some folks are not found of Down's Syndrome kids?
 

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Uh, maybe some folks are not found of Down's Syndrome kids?
my mom was like 40 when i was born, I turned out well, got awards in high school
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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