"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is the "sexless marriage" the ultimate beta submission?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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devilkingx2

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've taken all sorts of shyt for openly saying I don't want a career girl, like feminine women. This was seen as outright misogyny.
To be fair it depends on the career. Some careers will provide you with a really attractive woman that's also loaded.

I dunno why idiots think that wanting a feminine woman is bad though. That ones just mind boggling (although it's okay if she has masculine hobbies, more fun to play games than talk about celebrity gossip)

I'm dating an Asian chick who is much younger and the suggestion is this is some sort of "exploititive" relationship.
Cougar jealousy

Found out a few months back he broke down when drunk and revealed his Mrs
Did you ever hear about that study that says men who help with the housework actually get less sex?
 

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The career thing is about priorities. I want kids and 99% of my friends (who have career women) want to wait until they are 39 before they have 1 child, because they prioritise career over family, and I can't think of a less attractive trait in a woman.
For me i just wouldn't want a woman who has no free time or is always tired or complaining about her job or whatever.

Wanting to have kids late sounds like a positive, they take a lot of time energy and money that could be spent on other things. I dunno why anyone would wanna have kids earlier than they have to.

The feminine thing, the line I got was "so I am not allowed to have a career or male interests" to which I explained - yes, you are, I just don't find those girls attractive. Angry looks - I then pointed out all their BF/HB are fairly alpha, none are nannies or wimps, so why not chose a feminine man. Silence.
male interests can be a good thing, if that means stuff like playing games, watching sports and going to strip clubs rather than getting into bar fights and acting tough lol

I fully agree on the rest though
 

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Wanting to have kids late sounds like a positive, they take a lot of time energy and money that could be spent on other things. I dunno why anyone would wanna have kids earlier than they have to.
Uh, maybe some folks are not found of Down's Syndrome kids?
 

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Uh, maybe some folks are not found of Down's Syndrome kids?
my mom was like 40 when i was born, I turned out well, got awards in high school
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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