"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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is the reason she didnt fu(k because i stuffed or not?

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so i met this chick at this party was a great night i had 2 chicks keen on me the whole time and i didnt know which one i should try for and my mate came up and i knew he wanted a piece but i ****blocked him big time and then in his defeat he said to me "hey why dont you tell em about that hooker you made cry in asia" yet i manage to recover and get the hotter ones number.
txted went on a coffee date the next weekend, then went for a drink the weekend after on the first coffee date i walked her to her car and nearly didnt make out with her but then she sorta did this half step and i could tell that she wanted me too so i did, then again the next date after the drinks more making out but a little heaver and more.
then on the 3rd date we went to a movie its late like 1130 at night the movies over we have been holding hands and stuff were out the front of my house we make out for a decent amount of time, i also have a hand on the back of her neck and she has her hand on me somewhere, anyways then im like "wanna come in?" and she goes nah i should get moving back to my place then im like "thats fair enough maybe we will do something next weekend"

that was it... is the reason she didnt come in because ive ruined it somehow, this is the first time a chick hasnt come in after dropping me off
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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or maybe, just maybe, she didn't want to come in for some other reason. Let me put it this way, if she goes out with you again and doesn't LJBF you than you didn't screw up. So stop analyzing.
 
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My guess is what Kal said.

No need to over analyze chicks. they have reasons just like anyone else.
No need to get offended by this either. she might have been tired, might have not been comfortable yet, not feel like it, had work to do at home, etc

there are a myriad of different reasons. doesn't mean you screwed up. Over thinking will lead to you screwing up though. just be cool and have fun and everything else will follow
 
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What these guys said. Next time, don't ask her to come in, lead her in.
Just walk up and open the door and walk in like you expect her to come in with you, totally comfortable and bring her to the couch and continue to make out. If she has reservations let her bring them up. Don't provide her options...she likes you so just let it happen. Action not words. Good job and keep up the good work. Good luck.
 
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