"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is the patriarchy to blame for teen women dressing like sluts?

MatureDJ

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I was reading an interesting article about teen women dressing like sluts, when I came about this part ...

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_facto...ess_like_sluts_because_they_re_teenagers.html

When I was 13, my wardrobe included quite a few tight, low-cut, and generally tacky items of clothing. I even—and this is very likely the most embarrassing confession I will ever make publicly—once bought a tank top with a glittery Playboy bunny printed on it. Now, in my 20s, I favor shifts and cowl-necked sweater dresses, and I spend a good portion of my free time railing against the patriarchy over drinks with friends.s
So is it the patriarchy to blame? Is it the behavior of us men seeing women as sex objects that causes these teenage women to do this? Evidently yes, and us men (or at least us men as teen men) must start acting properly so that teen women don't do this ...

But if we really want to prevent girls from being victimized, perhaps we should teach boys to spend less time judging what girls wear and more time listening to what girls say.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This tard must have forgotten about the couple of centuries women didn't dress as hors under the patriarchy.

Always thought feminism "liberated" these SWPL b!tches from their clothes anyway? :confused:

I wouldn't be spending too much time reading that nonsense mate ,your head will implode at the unfathomable hamsterfication.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
This tard must have forgotten about the couple of centuries women didn't dress as hors under the patriarchy.

Always thought feminism "liberated" these SWPL b!tches from their clothes anyway? :confused:

I wouldn't be spending too much time reading that nonsense mate ,your head will implode at the unfathomable hamsterfication.
She also must have forgotten that in countries where real patriarchy still exists today (i.e. Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, etc.), women get stoned to death for dressing like wh0res. Sometimes I wish we could find a way to round up all the feminists and exile them to the middle east for a couple of years. When (and if) they come back, they'll have a newfound appreciation for the female-centric paradise that is the modern western society.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
. Sometimes I wish we could find a way to round up all the feminists and exile them to the middle east for a couple of years. y.
couple of years?

:crackup:

99% of the cvmslvts that pass as western women wouldn't last a week in a old school country.

My over/under is 3 days :cool: I come from the brittany miley generation..our biyaches can't go out of the house without a g-string peeking out
 

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Now, in my 20s, I favor shifts and cowl-necked sweater dresses, and I spend a good portion of my free time railing against the patriarchy over drinks with friends
What's the difference? Do you also argue politics with the bum who talks to himself on the corner? See my bold. She's obviously mentally ill.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Now, in my 20s, I favor shifts and cowl-necked sweater dresses, and I spend a good portion of my free time railing against the patriarchy over drinks with friends
Euphemism for "I got fat in my 20s".
 

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Jitterbug said:
Euphemism for "I got fat in my 20s".
Mmmhmmm. And what about the beta schlubs who she won't put out for the way she did in her 20s. Why do they have to work for it now, when she was giving it away for free when she was hotter, tighter, younger?
 

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( . )( . ) said:
This tard must have forgotten about the couple of centuries women didn't dress as hors under the patriarchy.

Always thought feminism "liberated" these SWPL b!tches from their clothes anyway? :confused:

I wouldn't be spending too much time reading that nonsense mate ,your head will implode at the unfathomable hamsterfication.
+1 rep.

Laughed so hard bout jumped outa my man thong! :crackup:
 
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