"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is the overtaking of illegitimate over legitimate births a sign that the Patriarchy is dead?

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I was reading this, and it got me concerned:

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/arti...pen-outside-marriage-signaling-cultural-shift

my opinion: To me, the whole meme of "legitimate" birth is tied into the the patriarchal institution of marriage, itself a way of men to be able to know that the spawn of their women is of their loins. Women having illegitimate births is first & foremost a disrespect of men in general. :down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yes and no. it's a sign that this stage of the patriarchy is currently dead. what the "patriarchy" actually entails is extraordinarily vague. in a sense, what you probably think of as the patriarchy is long dead, probably been dead since early after the internet really hit full swing. the true proper "patriarchy", ie; the permanency of western-liberal + capitalist ideology, is perhaps even strengthened because of this. replacing all the men in power, high paying jobs, etc, with women would still result in an absolute patriarchy. the patriarchy isn't who is in power, but how the power dynamic is operated/instituted. it is still the same game of domination, exploitation. so nothing really has changed, just that the pool of available men is going to keep getting smaller and smaller, and the pool of available women getting larger and larger (no pun intended, but yes, larger women, with no income, will be able to date much easier than say a 7.5 well off guy. 30 years ago that same guy could have bagged an 8-9 easy just simply because hes well off)
 
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