"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is the norm, the ideal?

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I know it's not, but humor the idea.

Freud leaned towards the norm. Milton Erickson leaned towards the norm. Most of the widely renowned psychologists lean towards the norm. At least their theory's do.

This sheep idea, where everybody seemingly follows the same path in life, and are ultimately looking for and living towards a certain 'meaning' is evident in every religion.

Looking at the world as "good and bad" is sheep thinking.

Looking at the world as "AFC and DJ" is sheep thinking.

In actual fact, looking at another person and comparing them to another person is sheep thinking.

When is the best time to follow the norm? I thought I was supposed to be different. I thought I was supposed to always be changing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not really understanding your post. The norm is alright, but remember a leader sets himself apart from the norm. Thats what seperates a leader and a follower.
 
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