"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IS the Mall where all the Girls Go when they have a boyfriend

KneghtRyder

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Sarging at a big mall today and There were ALOT OF women ....

I"d say 90 % of them were the ones walking around with their boyfriends ..
THe remaining others, were with their family ....mom dad .

THere is a little stigma that holds me back from approaching malls , is that Its completely Stranger to STranger interaction, and some might be shopping and you are talking to them right in the middle of shopping . I know its completely stupid un-DJlike and unconfident to think like this.

also, noticed Dressing WEll Definetly Helps alot in getting attention which is crucial to talking with women. ALways dress well !

I work in an office... my main outlet has been malls..albiet unsucessful

Any better places to sarge ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, the mall is like a high school reservation for all teenagers to get to gether after the football season is over to brag about who's school is better.

My advice is to stay away from the mall and go to places adults go (i.e. pool hall, club), that is if you're an adult.
 

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WTF? Adults don't shop in malls!?

Anyway, your just making an excuse not to sarge.

How do you know every girl that is with a guy is there bf? Did you approach them and find that out?

If you did that it still doesn't matter because you would still got some learning experience and its not too hard to get her interested and get the #close. Women that are with there parents is also fair game.

Really ur just making an excuse, there are many sets to open, so just go for it.
 

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Distant Light said:
WTF? Adults don't shop in malls!?

Anyway, your just making an excuse not to sarge.

How do you know every girl that is with a guy is there bf? Did you approach them and find that out?

If you did that it still doesn't matter because you would still got some learning experience and its not too hard to get her interested and get the #close. Women that are with there parents is also fair game.

Really ur just making an excuse, there are many sets to open, so just go for it.

bravo ! You have a positive outlook probably fit for a DJ you are. I have a lot of negative self-talk that just kills my self-confidence/esteem so I think I have to improve that first before I continue.
 
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