"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is the game really the same?

DJx420

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First off let me startby saying IN NO WAY AM I A DJ. I'm in the process of transforming myself.

With that being said I am currently reading one of Mystery's books right now.

So that is what brought me to this point: In his book he says you have to Build Attraction, then comfort, then seduce. Which clearly is the way that it works IMO. However when I was thinking about this today, I came up with a different perspective for certain situations.

I am currently in college. Now at my school, every Wed-Sat is filled with Alcohol. Now I get my fair share of poon at school but I hardly EVER follow these steps. So my question to you guys is: Is gaming at college (at night) different then any other gaming?

I say this becasue in college I feel that in order to get some a$$ you can go straight from attraction to seduce and skip the comfort. If a girl is drunk, hot and horny, then I don't think she needs to be TOO comfortable with you to go back to your place and fvck like jack rabbits.

Where as if I were to walk around campus I would have to go through all 3 steps.

What are your guys' feelings on this subject?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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COD

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WELL if u involve alcohol at a party setting things are a little different.\

The method is for building something somewhat meaningful temporary rapport. It does not require an alcohol induce state.

In that paticular aspect you best course of action is to tucker maxx or mack method. Throw some C & F at her and kino to escalate and move in for the kill.

So yes you may skip steps in that situation............
 

WC2

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Alcohol makes people comfortable. Why do you think people drink when they go out? To feel comfortable in situations. And they feel even more comfortable knowing that everyone else around them is drinking too.

So when you're attracting a broad out at the bar or the club, she's automatically more comfortable. When you approach a woman and attract her, she even more so lets her comfort level go up. Even MORE so, the fact that her friends are talking to other men as well doesn't make her feel so slutty anymore. All these things combined, make an easier pickup overall out at parties or clubs. The problem is getting the ***** back before she gets too drunk for her own good.
 

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Also, ontop of what everones said, people are expecting "fun" when their at a party. So the chances of getting action is increased. In fact, I have the firm belief that with drunk party girls game gets f-ed up.

(But thats just me, anyone else feel like that?)
 

Snow Plowman

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Read Tyler's Old Post
V A C Q S...

The anamoly effect post was real good talking about party chicks don't need comfort...it's a good read for knowing how to go about it...don't think linear, be flexible...

Currently though I'm just full on Closing...I don't care about attraction, comfort, seduction. For me it's just express myself and move to sex...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJx420

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What is this V A C Q S you speak of? I never heard of it.
 

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Mystery's steps are designed to create continued, "long term" attraction by building rapport, comfort and "connecting". With random hook-ups where you don't plan on seeing a girl again, it doesn't matter if she's comfortable around you two days later. If you're planning on dating a girl, then you are best to go through the basic steps, if you're just looking to get your d**k wet, then who cares what steps you follow and which ones you skip as long as she sleeps with you. I think the Mystery Method details what can happen when you skip steps if you need more info on that.
 
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