"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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is the dj bootcamp right?

mejorimposible

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hello.
im from argentina, i've been visiting sosuave for some years now.
i could tell my story but im not sure if it would help. just let me say that i had some seriuos psiquiatric problems a year ago, so i had to go to a psiquiatric, get medications for psicotic stuff in my head, and i've been going to a psicologue/terapist for more than a year now.
one of my problems is that for various reasons womans besides my mom, granmom and sisters dont exist in my life.
i'm 24 and had my fisrt french kiss a month ago in a party, it was really good. the sosuave reading with a lot of others things inspired me to get to that i think.
i donwloaded the dj bootcamp some time ago and i was reading it yesterday.
in the first excercises you have to go to the streets and say HI! to a lot of people, then have a little chat and the the same but with beautiful womans.
i was thinking that maybe this is not a good activity so i decided to write this thread, i mean, anyone saw that movie "patch adams", i love it, but you have to be really crazy to end up doing things like that, and i live in a small town, i dont want people to think im crazy o something.
answers welcome.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Es mas fácil de lo que piensas, no se que tan pequeño sea el pueblo en el que vivas, pero te aconsejo que intentes, un paso a la vez. Primero, lo de mantener contacto visual, sonreir, y luego decir ''Hola''. Intentalo, y poco a poco todo te va a hacer mas y mas sentido.
 
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