"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is the dj bible over rated!?!?

cool dude

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yea I have read some of it.I just have not read the whole thing.In my opinion I think it is really good but not so great.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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No, it isn't. Don't fall into the trap of doubting everything. Look, you're always gonna find people that trash ANYTHING. You're always gonna find someone who says 'B' is better' than 'A.' Don't pay attention.

Just read it. It will help.
 

TheSplat

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Very underrated actually. I found it when I was 16-17, am now 24 and balling and literally COMPLETELY owe my lifestyle to the DJ Bible. And please capitalize the damn thing. It's that good. No BS.
 
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