"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is the dj bible over rated!?!?

cool dude

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Has is helped anyone here actually become better sociable people? I don't really here alot about it and I am curious if I should even take the time to read it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think it can be revelation for some guys.

I know in the 90's, pre internet, back in the dark ages, I'm sure many guys on this site were absolutely clueless around women. Couldnt have even imagined something like the dj bible being available.

Another thing that it can do is shorten the self improvement process. I use to be in all kinds of crazy stuff (even ordering pheromones from the internet, they're suppose to give you a scent that makes you irresistible to women). You dont need all of the dj bible to be successful, but still has some excellent points that are useful.
 

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It's a stepping stone, at least gets guys to think about being a man and not putting women on a pedastool, but it has many limitations too. There are different levels to the game, at each level there is a certain need being addressed until the top level where there basically are no needs and things just happen in a zen like fashion and the only issue becomes time & energy management.
 

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I WISH I coudve read the DJ bible when I was in high school!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you guys retain all the info ya'll learn from sites and other reading.I read that writing helps one to retain the info in the mind,I am thinking about maybe making a seduction reference book,or more like a socializing book.I do keep a field report on here though. I just seem to go on auto pilot sometimes when I am out and never try the stuff I want to try that I read. I heard canned openers are bad but they help people get their feet wet,it sounds interesting.
 

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The good stuff isn't in techniques to be memorized or anything you need to remember. the good stuff is the stuff mostly in book of pook just explaining things bout being a man and testosterone and about how to thing about girls and explaining it's not wrong to be sexual with girls. The kind of stuff that basically just changes your perspective which you don't ever forget. Like yuo have this brainwashing that it's wrong to be sexual with girls and that they don't like sex then you see it proven totally wrong you don't need to memorize that you know the truth now (took the red pill) you don't go back.
 

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The DJ bible should emphasize that it's teaching men how to lead in their lives - you start interactions with girls and only end them once you're done talking to her. It then pushes guys to simply approach so many girls that they're pushing their comfort zones AND law of odds dictates that they will meet at least a couple girls interested in them.

Guys are much more effectively attractive to women if they have a solid 24/7 attractive lifestyle set up for themselves though, which the bible doesn't touch. It also doesn't talk about effective use of facebook, though those kinds of things were never its intent. But hey, considering its free, AND it teaches very similar material to what has been taught by PUA companies for years, I can't knock it.
 

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Yeah it helps. If you think by reading something you will magically appear in the buff betwixt 2 sweating hotties you may need to have your head examined. Just kidding of course, but yeah it's pretty good stuff. My favorite idea is "Learn when to walk away." Like someone said earlier, I wish I would have read it in high school and not at fvcking 25.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you guys read everything or do you just read the stuff that says must read.
 

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cool dude said:
Do you guys read everything or do you just read the stuff that says must read.
You could've finished reading the damn thing with all that time you spent wondering "Should I read it?"

Stop being a lazy bastard.
 

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Jitterbug said:
You could've finished reading the damn thing with all that time you spent wondering "Should I read it?"

Stop being a lazy bastard.
Ha.your funny!!I can't take you seriously.
And I do read everything I never said I didn't.
Pay attention to what you read and see the meaning.
 

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Absolutely not, it completely changed my life. Don't take it for granted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Johnny_Kage said:
3 words: Real Social Dynamics

What is this "DJ Bible" that you speak of?
RSD aren't all that. Just look at papa, you think that guy is good with girls? all he cares about is making money. RSD are a company who just put their own spin on stuff thats already out there with the intention of making profit (fair play thats the way the world works). That's not to say I particurlarly dont like RSD or that there isn't value in most of the stuff they provide.

The DJ Bible on the other hand is a collection of articles written by those whose only aspiration in writing them was to help others (and themselves) for free. So don't knock it. Especially Pook's and fingz's stuff in my opinion.

It is useful, but dont try reading too much at once. Take it one step at a time reading the must reads and then apply the advice before moving on. Don't get caught up in reading it because you might end up feeling you have to know everything in order to be successful, its simply not the truth. Generally the bible should be used as a reference or inspiration to go back to when the need arises.

TGF
 

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cool dude said:
Ha.your funny!!I can't take you seriously.
And I do read everything I never said I didn't.
Pay attention to what you read and see the meaning.
Take your own advice, kid.

Instead of asking people "should I read it?" and wasting your time, read it, apply the lessons in it and see for yourself. There's a reason why it is a recommended reading on this site.
 

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The problem is that if you don't apply what you read in it it will do nothing for you, and we have all these dumb ass kids come here thinking it'll change their lives if they merely read the damned thing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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