Is the divorcced mom the new "it" girl?

[MatureDJ]

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lisa-daily/why-divorced-women-are-th_b_780920.html

Or is this a shaming exercise by the author? I personally have no reason to date a single mommy other than as a casual sperm receptacle.

 

[DropZone3]

With marriage on the decline, it makes sense that single moms are going to be it especially in the 30/40 age range.

 

[omkara]

Even the single-mommies out there are entitled flakes unless they have that supreme "twilight" alpha guy catch on their line. Everyone else is just invisible.

I have noticed that a lot of women, especially older, are pretty mentally unstable if they don't have a man to anchor themselves to. And social pressure is also a factor. Not everyone woman is ok with being seen as a spinster. So there are some factors which will lead women to settle for more realistic guys in the long run.

 

[sodbuster]

Mostly a real world look at dating with children. The thing they are missing in the million extra men? Up to a THIRD of men under 35 will NEVER marry. USE her as a cumdumpster,probably.... Support someone else's kids? Not likely. SO any man dumb enough to marry will be in big demand

 

[RMM]

"plausible excuse to eat frozen cookie dough right out of the tube"

That alone speaks volumes. Something that traditionally has been so easy to make it's a perfect thing for kids do to themselves with but a little supervision, and she gets it out of a frozen tube.

I'm thinking bitter, mentally unstable 40-something single moms are going to be "it" indeed, in the Stephen King kind of way that is.

 

[squirrels]

I'm thinking bitter, mentally unstable 40-something single...

Don't forget "fat".

I would have no problem marrying a woman divorced from a previous marriage. But not with kids.

The female breeding imperative, the "biological clock", is a selfish drive. The woman gives no thought to what it'll be like for the kid to grow up in a broken home, she just HAS to conceive to gratify herself as a worthy child-bearer. Ask her why she chose to have kids if she wasn't sure about her relationship, you'll get answers like, "A kid is the only person who will love you no matter what you do".

Isn't that the EPITOME of self-centeredness? Bring another life into this world and then strip him/her of the family life they ought to have because YOU are an insecure moonbat b!tch who needs constant attention/affection??

To me, being a single mom isn't necessarily a reflection on a woman's self-worth. I understand that women make mistakes from time to time...and I hope the best for them, that they can find a guy who is really cool being with a pre-made family and not just putting up with the kids because the girl's p*ssy is hot.

But it won't be me. If there's anything that's a "red flag", it's that a woman has the nerve to bring a life into the world and place it's well-being on the rickety foundation of a busted relationship. That, to me, screams poor judgement. I'll not be the one to support her mistakes and I especially will not be willing to have MY children by her.

And thus the stupid people continue to breed stupid children...the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

 

[bluenorther]

Single moms prove Einstein's definition of insanity: Repeating the same action over and over, expecting a different result.

 

[Zarky]

Single moms are simply easy lays. Or easier lays, at least. They have their uses and I don't disparage them. Just like cougars. As long as they know their worth on the dating market I'm cool with them.

Have a good time with them until they try to get you involved with the kid, then it's time to say goodbye. Trust me: then it's time to say goodbye.