Is the car you drive as important as the cloths you wear in attracting women?

[sapphire]

As I was driving to work the other day I saw a big billboard ad with a picture of a beautiful model alongside an equally beautiful Maserati sports car. Under the picture was written:

"The car you drive is as important as the cloths you wear"

Clearly, the ad was aimed at men, most likely middle aged succe
ssful men, with the idea that you need an expensive sports car to convey success to attract beautiful women.

I think there is some validity to the idea. Even though a girl may be attracted to your body and personality, if you drive a crappy car, that is tantamount to dressing poorly thereby lowering your image with the opposite sex.

I also think that women in general subconsciously equate a man's success with the car he drives just as they form impressions based on the cloths and shoes you wear.

Any opinions?

 

[t00dumb]

not at all, if she thinks being attractive is measured by a car, then she needs a reality check. real girls judge more by you and not by what you possess.

 

[englishcrap]

Well its a great way of attracting "fake" women

 

[lerxst]

The car you drive isn't important.

The condition of your car is.

Women will relate to how you take care of your car as to how you will take care of the other things in your life [i.e., her].

 

[Delta Male]

Absolutely not. Your clothes contribute to your good looks, which present some value to the girl (but not as much as good convo skills, BL, inner beliefs, vibe, etc). Your car, on the other hand, merely represents how much money you have. Unless you plan on being a "sugardaddy" and paying for all her stuff, how much money you have won't make any difference to her, because you won't be spending it on her.

I don't have a car, and I don't have any problems hooking up. Vincent drives a crappy white van which he bangs women in all the time. If you want to buy an expensive car for yourself, that's cool. But it is not worth it to spend $40,000 in a futile effort to buy women's attention.

-Dan

http://www.rapidsocialimpact.com

 

[diplomatic_lies]

The car you drive says something about you, as does your clothes, appearance, job, etc.

 

[Avatar]

every little bit adds to the big picture. So yes a nice car helps. Is it mandatory? no.

But never buy something you can't afford to impress a woman.

 

[RoeCyris]

Originally posted by lerxst
The car you drive isn't important.

The condition of your car is.

Women will relate to how you take care of your car as to how you will take care of the other things in your life [i.e., her].

too ****in true! I keep my piece of **** car clean inside and out. I spend more time on the inside than outside (especially cuz its winter) because you gotta figure thats where you both need to be comfortable and most girls are NOT comfortable in nasty messes with McD's cups and cheeto bags all around.

That reminds me, go clean your room while your at it!

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by lerxst
The car you drive isn't important.

The condition of your car is.

Women will relate to how you take care of your car as to how you will take care of the other things in your life [i.e., her].

right @@

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Avatar
But never buy something you can't afford

Exactly right. If you can afford a luxury car, then by all means, get one. It's enjoyable, and though many on the board will disagree, it does get a woman's attention. Face reality: nice cars tend to be driven by people who are well off. Well off people are financially secure. Women seek out financially secure men for long-term relationships (i.e. marriage). This isn't as important if you're 16-30, but as you get older it becomes increasingly moreso.

If you don't drive a "nice" car, don't worry about it. Fix it when you get the chance. If you do sit there and think "I can't get a girl because I don't drive a luxury vehicle" you're just... stupid, and you run the risk of making it become a self-fufilling prophecy. Basically what it all boils down to is don't look down on yourself, and don't build other people up just because what they have or what you don't have.

I agree with keeping it clean, regardless of what you drive. I can't stand mess, and I wouldn't want to be seen driving around in a car that had trash, cups, bags of old food, etc sitting in it. Disgusting - and it reflects the drivers personality.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
The car you drive says something about you, as does your clothes, appearance, job, etc.

That's about the size of it...if you're content to drive around a piece-of-****, it's like saying, "There's an aspect of my life I would like to improve, but I don't have the motivation to do it."

If you're in college and it's all you have, that's one thing...you're working toward something better. If you're driving a turd and you're like 30-something, it DOES say something about you.

 

[Delta Male]

If you really think that what car you drive will make a woman attracted to you, you have some serious limiting beliefs which you need to get rid of. Unfortunately me saying this on the internet will not get rid of these limiting beliefs for you, you have to see guys IN REAL LIFE who have awesome relationships with beautiful girls, when they drive an absolute piece of sh!t. I know, because this was the only way I got rid of these limiting beliefs myself.

Vincent's LRs mostly end with him banging the girl in his van, so I was pretty surprised when I saw just how crappy his van was in real life. There's only two seats in it, and all kinds of random assorted crap all over the back. AND IT DOESN'T MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE. Chicks would much rather bang him in a crappy van, than an AFC in a Ferrari.

A nice car will get a woman's *attention* but, it won't make her attracted to you. And like I said before, if you want to buy a nice car for yourself, I think that's great. But if you buy a car which you don't like for $60,000 just to get women's attention, you are an absolute tool.

-Dan

http://www.rapidsocialimpact.com

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

All of this just shows how bad women are these days. If you don't have the money to buy all that expensive trendy clothe and don't own a car, that is such a fatal combination that you won't attract many if any women, almost as bad a thing in terms of attracting women like wearing a shirt saying you're a homo! both things basically have the same effect which is women won't be attracted to you.

why is a car important? because it tells a female that you will be able to take her places, to restaurants, movies, shopping bla bla bla. It also says that you have some money and probably work so you have money to spend on her. If you don't own a car a female won't even give you the time of day! females are above having boyfriends that make them ride the bus, at least here in the Good ol USA, I don't know about the rest of the world!

I just wish women of today were like the ones of the old days. Where people didn't have that much money as today and a girl was happy with her boyfriend giving her a flower or an apple as a gift! it was the thought that counted for the girl. Relationships were more about having an actual relationship and communicating and building a friendship. Now relationships revolve a large part on material things. Spending lots of money on your gf, restaurants, movies, buying her stuff, having a car to take her places etc etc.

 

[Avatar]

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
All of this just shows how bad women are these days. If you don't have the money to buy all that expensive trendy clothe and don't own a car, that is such a fatal combination that you won't attract many if any women, almost as bad a thing in terms of attracting women like wearing a shirt saying you're a homo! both things basically have the same effect which is women won't be attracted to you.

why is a car important? because it tells a female that you will be able to take her places, to restaurants, movies, shopping bla bla bla. If you don't own a car a female won't even give you the time of day! females are above having boyfriends that make them ride the bus, at least here in the Good ol USA I don't know about the rest of the world!

There is 6 human needs in life that everyone strives towards. They are:
1. Certainty/Comfort
2. Significance
3. Growth
4. Uncertainty/Variety
5. Connection/Love
6. Contribution

Without getting into too much detail, Certainty/Comfort is needed for survival. Women look towards men and relationships to fulfill this most important need. A man who drives a nice car has a good chance of having lots of money. Money fulfills that females need for Certainty (which again equates to survival in its most basic sense).

The above needs also overrides ones values in life.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by Avatar

Without getting into too much detail, Certainty/Comfort is needed for survival. Women look towards men and relationships to fulfill this most important need. A man who drives a nice car has a good chance of having lots of money. Money fulfills that females need for Certainty (which again equates to survival in its most basic sense).

Look, we all know what you're saying. Women want a man that will make them feel secure. This is true and we all know this for example the nice guy vs jerk and why women prefer jerks. Jerks make women feel more secure, a badboy makes a woman feel more secure.

Nothing wrong with women wanting a man that will make them feel secure, but in this day and age they have taken it to a whole nother level! they have taken it to a point where having and keeping a gf is expensive! to a point where a poor guy, an average guy that doesn't have money to buy expensive brand name clothe and doesn't have a car has very little chances of attracting girls, even if he is good looking. It shouldn't be this way!

 

[Delta Male]

This thread really disturbs me. You can't imagine how stupid it seems to me to see people whining about how you need a expensive car and money to get girls, when I buy NOTHING for my girlfriend, and she loves me. And, she cleans my room for me. And, she knows I hook up with other chicks.

Not only that, but Vincent gets his girlfriends to buy *him* stuff all the time. That's right, they buy *him* stuff. It is very possible to have your girlfriends buying you gifts, if you are so inclined to do so. Personally it's not my thing, but if you want to, there are girls out there with money who are more than happy to do it...IF you have enough game.

For those of you complaining about how you can't get girls nowadays if you don't have an expensive car, you are wrong. I suspect you are not getting laid by the quality chicks you desire. The reason why you are not getting laid is that you are not cool guys, and that you don't believe, deep down, that you are attractive. But you don't want to admit this to yourselves, so you delude yourselves into thinking that other guys who get laid while you are not getting laid because of their expensive cars. It's simply not true. If you ever want to make progress, you need to accept that the reason why you are not getting laid not because of your car or your job or anything else, but because of YOU.

-Dan

http://www.rapidsocialimpact.com

 

[G_S]

I guess my question to your question is, do you want to attract women who only like you because of your car and clothes?

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by G_S
I guess my question to your question is, do you want to attract women who only like you because of your car and clothes?

The clothe you wear + a car is something they look for in men just like good looks. Think of it this way. Clothing + Car is just another attribute of men to them that they judge you on, just like good looks. So while in judging women we look for nice body, females look for good looks (just like us) + how you dress, whether you have a car etc. Men see a fine ass b1tch they don't care if those jeans are from kmart or that this female takes the bus everyday. This stuff does matter to girls, they judge us on this stuff.

To them it is only part of getting a better deal for themselves. A guy that dresses nice + has a car is a better deal for them. Men, we don't care. We see a fine woman we don't care if she dresses in clothe that makes her look poor or that she doesn't have a car etc. To us, a fine woman is the good deal.

 

[tmpgstx]

Delta, your friend with the van down by the river is just being used for sex, nothng more. He's just a human vibrator at this point, and the type of girls using him are either not goal oriented, or aren't looking for any long term stability at this point in their life.

To me, or anybody, an unkempt dirty old van does not show class.

Image is everything. They teach you this business. They teach you this in entertainment (entertainment is business). You don't have to have all the best things to get the girl you want, as you want to have a woman into you more than material things you own, but on the other hand as others have stated in this post - it does show goals and ambition, so long as you can afford it comfortably and got it for yourself because you wanted it.

It's also a way of showing your hard work and earnings if you've had to earn most everything for yourself without having everything handed to you on a silver platter, like many people do by their parents.

 

[Wal Doe]

Here's the order of things

a women is attracted to, first and foremost, YOU. as in your personality, your mind. but see, the thing is, she doesn't know YOU yet. she doesn't know what makes you tick. so what is her judgement based on? well, if you're one of the lucky few, looks. women are very superficial creatures, but heres the others... your clothing. do u have style? do u have taste? different women give you different reactions to how you dress, so combine styles to create your own unique style and you'll be hand feeding them, cuz' your style screams personality. change it up and stay unpredictable. next? ur stance. ur demeanor, ur aura of self-confidence shall i say. keep up with their giant egoes at a happy medium. at least look straight ahead of you as u walk. now YOUR CAR!? well...yes, sadly. it gets better, so no worries, pimpin'-as long as u stay up with the other factors of course. you can drive your mom's battered volare or that old nissan stanza and still pull em', as long as u keep it clean and free of spinny hubcaps. get some tunes in there. let them know that in the future, things will change cuz' ur going to school, or how your looking for a new car...blah, blah, blah...

or you get a nice, economic sports car within your budget and u up ur game a full i dunno'

20 points?

i dunno', but it helped me. more than i thought it would.

miles and miles of lovely smiles.

all i know is it's that much easier now. but hey-it only matters a lil' bit in the whole sum of things, kids.