"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is that why virgins are better?

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I been sleepin with this girl for the past few weeks and it feels totally diff from the last and only girl ive slept with. The last girl was a virgin and she was really tight i guess so there was alot of feeling.

But this girl says she hasnt had a bf since last january and yet i feel like no sensation, its not even a lil tight at all. Is that normal? She siad shes done it with 6 other guys but the last guy was a year ago. I mean i guess she might be masturbating or watever, but to me its weird cuz its nothin like the first girl i slept with at all. It feels better using my left hand if thats even possible lol.

Is this normal?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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southern lips come in all shapes and sizes. i've been with girls who have small nations notched on their bed posts and they were pretty tight and then there were some girls who had mega flaps who were with only like 3 guys.
 

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The strength of and how she uses her vaginal muscles come into play here as well.

And some girls are bigger than others.

The right girl will fit just right.
 

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it always amazes me that people think a girl having multiple partners is guarranteed to make her "loose" down there. What if she slept with only one guy, a bf who happened to be quite big? Logically then, that girl should be as loose as a slut who's slept with 100 guys.

To a certain extent, its like **** size, just part of that person. However, she can do kegel excersises to "tighten" up down there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Has your c0ck stretched from masturbation? Does it get longer if you pull on it really hard? No? Then why are you assuming this phenomena happens to women? It doesn't. It's a myth. Have a nice day.
 

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i dont know...

my first gf who has experience her first sex with me is not that tight...
i feel no sensation and i feel better when i jack myself..(no kidding)

and there was this girl that is really tight even if shes not a virgin...although she loosens up if i fvck her much but regains tightness overtime...thats how i feel...i mean if we havent had sex in a mont or week it tightens...
 

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insanity said:
southern lips come in all shapes and sizes. i've been with girls who have small nations notched on their bed posts and they were pretty tight and then there were some girls who had mega flaps who were with only like 3 guys.

Well put I have had girls with kids, with many sex partners and they had tight pvssies. And I have had girls with a low amount of sex partners with loose pussies.

I think some girls are just born with loose pussies.
 

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lookyoung said:
Well put I have had girls with kids, with many sex partners and they had tight pvssies. And I have had girls with a low amount of sex partners with loose pussies.

I think some girls are just born with loose pussies.
Yea must be, cuz im tellin ya this felt like it was hardly in there. First several thrusts was like hitting a brick wall, but once it loosned up, it was extrememly loose. Like i said i only slept with 1 other girl so i dont know much about the vagina world but all i know is i didnt get that feelin i did with the virigin where it feels like the vagina is pullin it in. When shes on top theres so little sensation i gotta change psoitions to fnish my buisness. I remember with the virigin i could def last alot longer with her on top, but i still could blow at any moment if i wasnt concentratng. This girl thinks im like a sex god cuz i last forever i guess thats good then lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Possible cause: Shrinking d*ck syndrone?

:nono: :nervous:
 

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All chicks have different sized vaginas. Some women I have had sex with have been really loose where I really felt nothing like the starter of this thread said, and I have been with women that were pretty tight. How much they have sex does not matter, the vagina goes back down to the normal size afterwards. My cousin also had a gf that was a virgin, but they never had sex, and he said when he fingered her she wasn't even that tight, and he said that he has fingered and fvcked some hos that were much tighter than his virgin ex gf. But, they can do exercises to tighten it.
 
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