"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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"Is that all you got?!"

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A girl is walking nearby you. She is tall, long blond hair, a pretty face well "painted", the tight jeans show her even tighter booty which she gladly throws left and right as she walks and her perky boobs say "hello' What do you think?

If you're like many guys you'll go "Daaaayummmm!!!" Immediately she'll receive a score of 9.78 in your brain and on top of that you will hardly have the balls to say hi to her. All you'll do is keep thinking of all the nasty thungs you want to do to that tight piece of ass while the drool drips from the corner of your lips.

Now tell me what just happened?

It's simple really. She managed to impress you with her looks. You don't even know if she's nice or if she can talk or whatever, yet you know you'd like to wax her!! As guys we tend to be impressed very easily by girls and their looks. With a little bit of paint, a nice hair cut, well fitting or tight clothes they get us impressed. So what do we do?

We try and return the favor. We all know how that one ends.

We need to adopt an attitude that says "Is that all you got?!" Now I discovered this yesterday and tried to adopt this attitude, but it's hard, especially if on the inside you're going "Dayumm!" It's hard to be true to yourself and to your feelings when you are automatically assigning numbers to bodies. I'm sure if they were inflatable dolls, you'll feel the same way :D

If your'e doing that, you're judging people's personality based on their looks. Imagine being a manager and wanting to hire people. You'll hire all the hotties that came into your office "because they look so damn hot!" and you'll be out of business in less than a week.

Maybe the right attitude would be to say "Okay she looks good, but what is she really like. Is she nice?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do people complicate things so ****ing much here??

God forbid what we MEN should think "woooow damn" when we see some hotbabe, and i don't give a **** who dares to approach her or not. Thats not my problem.
 
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Originally posted by Zeus
Why do people complicate things so ****ing much here??

God forbid what we MEN should think "woooow damn" when we see some hotbabe, and i don't give a **** who dares to approach her or not. Thats not my problem.
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Well not everybody is like you, or should be like you :D We're all different. Some of us need that extra push.
 
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A girl is walking nearby you. She is tall, long blond hair, a pretty face well "painted", the tight jeans show her even tighter booty which she gladly throws left and right as she walks and her perky boobs say "hello' What do you think?
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Lol. Now that was one of the funniest things ive read on this site!

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lol.
 
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Originally posted by Zeus
Why do people complicate things so ****ing much here??

God forbid what we MEN should think "woooow damn" when we see some hotbabe, and i don't give a **** who dares to approach her or not. Thats not my problem.
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Word.Uneccesary crap all over this board. :eek:

Let me see now you guys wanna start competing :D with the broads .Instead of playing mindgames and lying to yourself why don't you just acceprt that she's giving you a boner and think of an opening line ...I'm sure that will work better than going:rolleyes: and "pssshhhh" as she walks by...like a woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tha Realness...

It's unbelieveable the crap that must've been circulating in my absence... I was expecting that a break would be beneficial that I would come back better able to help people, but the posts leave nothing to help other then demonstrating common (or not so common) sense.

Anyway... to not hijack the thread...

You are talking about becoming a metrosexual here.... I've discovered that being like that AND spitting an excellent game makes for quite the lady killer... but most metros don't have that level of game and just seem gay.

Here's something about women that you need to know : Where men look for physical looks in deciding a ƒuck partner, a woman decides based on how the man makes her FEEL, so being able to PROJECT emotions to a woman is a sure way to get into her pants, regardless of hotness.

How do you do that? You speak in an emotionally charged way... "I just LOOVE rockclimbing, just the exhilaration as you near the top and your so tired that you could just let go, but instead you just keep forcing, every step bringing you closer to the top. Then the feeling of excitimen knowing that you made it... just WOW, it gives such a rush."

I said the equivalent of that to a girl I was talking to once, and as I was talking I could see that she was experiencing climbing as I was talking, then as soon as I uttered that last word and paused, it looked like the weight of the world left her shoulders...
 
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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Tha Realness...

It's unbelieveable the crap that must've been circulating in my absence... I was expecting that a break would be beneficial that I would come back better able to help people, but the posts leave nothing to help other then demonstrating common (or not so common) sense.

Anyway... to not hijack the thread...

You are talking about becoming a metrosexual here.... I've discovered that being like that AND spitting an excellent game makes for quite the lady killer... but most metros don't have that level of game and just seem gay.

Here's something about women that you need to know : Where men look for physical looks in deciding a ƒuck partner, a woman decides based on how the man makes her FEEL, so being able to PROJECT emotions to a woman is a sure way to get into her pants, regardless of hotness.

How do you do that? You speak in an emotionally charged way... "I just LOOVE rockclimbing, just the exhilaration as you near the top and your so tired that you could just let go, but instead you just keep forcing, every step bringing you closer to the top. Then the feeling of excitimen knowing that you made it... just WOW, it gives such a rush."

I said the equivalent of that to a girl I was talking to once, and as I was talking I could see that she was experiencing climbing as I was talking, then as soon as I uttered that last word and paused, it looked like the weight of the world left her shoulders...
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You sort of lost me..dumbify your spittery ,pimp.
 
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Sorry guy,

That post wasn't all directed to you Realness, just the top part, that people have made meeting women into such a huge thing that they create their own mental blocks to getting the women that they want.

The rest of the post (after anyways) was directed towards legolas, to continue the topic that he raised...

To dumb down further, you CAN be a metrosexual and still be a lady killer, BUT if you can't spit game and you are metrosexual you will just be perceived as gay.

Men : Decide based on visual cues what they want in a woman
Women : Decide based on emotional cues if the man is for them.

Moral : You make a woman feel and she will fall in love with you.

I'm not sure what else to add... PM me for clarification.
 
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