"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is tennis a good first date?

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Kuwi

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I actually don't want to spend any money, so I was thinking of taking this girl to play tennis. is this is a good first date?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you both like to play tennis it is. Maybe take a walk around the courts after your done playing so you have an opportunity for more conversation. Also, make sure you WIN and then tease her about it.
 
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I think it's a great idea if YOU know how to play. Even if she doesn't know how to play, you can teach her and get in close for some easy kino. Plus she'll get sweaty and hopefully wear something small.
 
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mpimpin

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HELL YES! Great idea!
As long as you can decently hit a ball and know what your doing.

I prob would get a feel of her tennis level before hand.

But Great idea!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Kuwi said:
I actually don't want to spend any money, so I was thinking of taking this girl to play tennis. is this is a good first date?
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Does she play tennis? If so, yes.

Reminds me, I might ask the girl from my tennis class if she would like to get together and play sometime.
 
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