"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is **** sucking and her buying you lunch a form of her validating herself?

dax

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OK...I built up the rapport with her at the gym....closed the number called her, got a date, started hanging out with her regularly....she started blowing up my phone,...and now she wants to see me all the time...she is a HOT *****! Yeah you could say I'm ****in' really crazy about her physically....emotionally I"m getting a little caught up...and it's scaring myself....so far we are compatible in all ways...but it's still ****in' early...guys... She will suck my **** at the drop of a hat, and today she's all bringing me lunch ....blah blah....I just want to keep her in that crazy/lusty/infatuated state for a while...any tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Act like you don't need it - not by being a complete and utter d#ck - but by being aloof.

You don't get to see her - no big deal.

She wants to see you - you'll call her tomorrow because you could be busy.

be non commital.

do not be available.

This is basic DJ Bible stuff.

Remember - there's always another chick where she came from. Believe it. And if you don't believe it, act like you do.
 
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