is something as innocuous as being too excited replying to a text turn her off?

[big weezy]

i had a good pof date on sunday, she text me afterwards when she got back home being flirty etc i replied a couple times but let her have the last word. today she text me again asking 'how are you today?' i had just woken up from a nap so wasn't thinking straight that this might be a sh1t test and she was testing my eagerness and availability and i was coming across keen. i replied after 15 mins (i should have waited a few hours make her sweat and sent it at 10pm) i was just excited that she 'seemed' interested hence her text but forgot she might just be seeking attention and validation.

i sent 'im great thanks, hope you're well i look forward to seeing you in a sexy outfit next time.. is that place you said at x y x? she replies after 5 mins answering my question and i text her back that i've whatsapp'd her (yesterday she asked me why i dont have whatsapp/viber - i do but on a different number)

on whatsapp i proceed to ask her what her favorite dessert is? (to lead up to our next potential date) and that she can send me sexy pics on here (whatsapp - yesterday she sent it as an mms text message hence her question about whatsapp - i thought she wanted to send me pics) then told her the question about the dessert was not related to my text message earlier) i saw her typing something it said 'typing..' but the msg never sent or she chose not to send it and it's been silence since. im not sure why but i know i should have been less eager and keen, i think she was just testing how interested i was and i gave the game away.

is that enough to turn a girl off completely? i know there's not much i can do now but wait a few days and ask her out again (i dont think the convo about her wearing something sexy for me was an issue btw, esp compared to our convo last night after the date where she went into more detail about what sexy stuff she'd wear)

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

i text her back that i've whatsapp'd her (yesterday she asked me why i dont have whatsapp/viber - i do but on a different number)

on whatsapp i proceed to ask her what her favorite dessert is? (to lead up to our next potential date) and that she can send me sexy pics on here (whatsapp - yesterday she sent it as an mms text message hence her question about whatsapp - i thought she wanted to send me pics) then told her the question about the dessert was not related to my text message earlier) i saw her typing something it said 'typing..' but the msg never sent or she chose not to send it and it's been silence since. im not sure why but i know i should have been less eager and keen, i think she was just testing how interested i was and i gave the game away.

So why did you 'whatsapp' her?

What if she said she had azkasfafapp? Would you immediatley azkasfafapp her?

I don't even know what whatsapp is. I don't really care either. Maybe some day I'll check it out. Maybe, when I want to. Definitely not when some chick says I should, unless she's a friend of mine, then I'll consider it.

 

[big weezy]

So why did you 'whatsapp' her?

What if she said she had azkasfafapp? Would you immediatley azkasfafapp her?

I don't even know what whatsapp is. I don't really care either. Maybe some day I'll check it out. Maybe, when I want to. Definitely not when some chick says I should, unless she's a friend of mine, then I'll consider it.

i had it already, it's a way to message people send photos videos etc, it just makes it easier to send photos instead of sending it via mms which is more expensive etc. i messaged her on whatsapp because from the convo we had last night she seemed like she was going to send me naughty pics (she said to me 'ok i'll do that tomorrow babe' i dont know if that's in reference to her wearing a sexy outfti and sending me pics as the texts last night were back to back but the jist of it was that)

she just asked me 'why dont i have whatsapp/viber?'

i said i already did on a different number. it's just easier to talk on there tbh but with her i prefer texting it's slower i can leave it for a few hours then reply.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

i had it already, it's a way to message people send photos videos etc, it just makes it easier to send photos instead of sending it via mms which is more expensive etc. i messaged her on whatsapp because from the convo we had last night she seemed like she was going to send me naughty pics (she said to me 'ok i'll do that tomorrow babe' i dont know if that's in reference to her wearing a sexy outfti and sending me pics as the texts last night were back to back but the jist of it was that)

she just asked me 'why dont i have whatsapp/viber?'

i said i already did on a different number. it's just easier to talk on there tbh but with her i prefer texting it's slower i can leave it for a few hours then reply.

Gotcha. Well, I think it was too much texting/convo inbetween dates, in general. You already met her. Give her a chance to wonder what you're doing/thinking. You never want to show her your whole hand right off the bat. I do think being too excited plus, simply, just too much conversing, is what turned her off. Girls like a challenge. You made it too easy for her. They want to date up, not date some guy they perceive to be on the same level or beneath them.