"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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is some sophisticated bot attacking SS?

sosousage

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I see almost daily a new user that creates thread with few sentences in one paragraph. user has no more posts, user doesnt do breaklines or new paragraphs, user always have avatar

(who puts avatar on newly created account? less than 10% - and these are all pics, supposedly their pictures)


also they have first and lastname in nicknamefollowed by birth year
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also is there any news on this new layout and why the site changed?

I'm not really a fan
 
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