"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is social media tearing society apart?

BMX

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Don't just "stop posting on fakebook" and vow to stop reading the stories. Get rid of the account. You'll be fine without one. I guarantee it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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inquisitor

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No, the way people use it is the problem. Never confuse improper use of something with the actual thing being the problem.
Social media gives you a lot more choices to make. A lot of people have trouble making good choices in their life so when confronted with many more choices on a daily basis to make, they tend to make a lot of poor ones.
I agree. Simple self-control goes a long way, and there's no need for attachment. Since we know better, our socmed accounts should better bring good vibes most of the time. And there are always more fulfilling activities to better spend our time for.

The internet is made to improve our lives, not to destroy it. It's just applications, and should only be used for their intended healthy purposes. Turn off the global electrical grid, there's the real world. Heck, don't turn it off, there's still only the real world.
 

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I've never liked Facebook, before everyone i knew used MSN(Windows Live Messenger). It was just for messaging and to add each other you both had to have one anothers emails.

Facebook took over and everyone used that, do i really want to know what Jeremy from highschool had for lunch today? No. It's such a stupid and pointless website.

Instagram was good until facebook bought it and It became an app for attention hoes to gather beta orbiters.

Snapchat was always a mess, and indirectly led to the rise of onlyfans
 

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The problem with social media is it exposes human vulnerabilities. Everyone wants attention, to be loved, to be noticed, to be talked about. It’s almost a basic human need. People think they can get this from social media, but they can’t. It’s empty and it’s unfulfilling, they think are *connecting* with others when they are not.
 

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without a doubt its tearing apart the fabric of society and is the most evil insidious thing man has ever created.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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