"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is smoking in moderation really that bad?

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I smoke. One of the worst decisions I ever made. I started only have a few a day. Then eventually I was at a half a pack, now its usually about a pack to a pack and a half per day if I'm stressed. Quit now if you don't smoke that much, because eventually your going to smoke more and more. Then it's really hard to quit.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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noobolgy said:
I smoke. One of the worst decisions I ever made. I started only have a few a day. Then eventually I was at a half a pack, now its usually about a pack to a pack and a half per day if I'm stressed. Quit now if you don't smoke that much, because eventually your going to smoke more and more. Then it's really hard to quit.
Not that hard with the patch. I quit using those things. It's easy to quit until step 3 and you are on that little tiny patch. You start out with a huge patch and I didn't even think about smoking the first 2 weeks with that huge patch.

The patch delivers so much nicotine into your blood the thought of a cigarette is disgusting.
 

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Patches and similar do nothing for me. I simply enjoy smoking. I guess it's my cross to bear. And when I smoke too much, I know I've over-done it, and I can feel the effects. I like to smoke a little when I drink whiskey, grill, play golf, etc. I especially like them while driving for work. That's why I ask the question.

Quitting cold turkey seems like I'm depriving myself. Maybe cigars are really the answer but I've never really liked those. I like to inhale.
 

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I'll never smoke a cig and i'll tell you why.

Used to work in a bingo hall, so I inhaled plenty of second hand cig smoke there. Was in school one day feeling anxious, walked out to the smoking area to get some fresh air. Kinda felt odd about it because I felt kinda drawn to the smell of the smoking area. Was outside standing by the ashtray kinda contemplating it's smell and it hit me. I was craving a cigarette!

Cigarettes... not even once.
 

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speed dawg said:
Patches and similar do nothing for me. I simply enjoy smoking. I guess it's my cross to bear. And when I smoke too much, I know I've over-done it, and I can feel the effects. I like to smoke a little when I drink whiskey, grill, play golf, etc. I especially like them while driving for work. That's why I ask the question.

Quitting cold turkey seems like I'm depriving myself. Maybe cigars are really the answer but I've never really liked those. I like to inhale.
20 years ago a doctor told my uncle that if he smokes under 10 cigs a day it won't shorten his life. This same uncle was found dead from a heart attack 2 years ago before he was 70.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Malice said:
This same uncle was found dead from a heart attack 2 years ago before he was 70.
I can dig this....I'm much more concerned with heart disease than I am actual cancer. It runs in my family.

I know the drill, I have to quit. It just sucks.
 

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Malice said:
Not that hard with the patch. I quit using those things. It's easy to quit until step 3 and you are on that little tiny patch. You start out with a huge patch and I didn't even think about smoking the first 2 weeks with that huge patch.

The patch delivers so much nicotine into your blood the thought of a cigarette is disgusting.
Tried that, and the gum, and the E-cig. Also that medication for quitting, those pills gave me tons of energy, but I still kept smoking and I drank on it, not good.

My brother quit with the gum. He lets me smoke in his car, and I'll tell you what I kind of feel like a ****, but he just throws in a piece of regular gum. He started with the nicotine gum, and switched to regular gum, chews the sh!t out of that stuff.

The funny thing is, is I started smoking by stealing his cigs. Any way, I really need to quit. It's an expensive, disgusting habit.

I think this spring I'm going to quit. Winter really fvcks me up.
 
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