"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is skipping lunch ok?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If your trying to lose weight, then its probably not 2 bad.
but if your trying to bulk, then its not exactly good.
Why don't you bring your own sandwich's? currently for work i am eating 2 salmon sandwich's for lunch, which is about 40 or 50 grams of protein, plus some nuts (more protein) and some fruit (healthy). Takes alittle effort to prepare, but tis cheaper than buying sandwich's.
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penkitten
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skipping lunch means you will get tired early in the day and then the day will just lag on and on and you will be cranky.
diablo
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By asking this you've shown that you haven't read even the first thing regarding proper nutrition. Tell you what - read the stickied threads at the top of this forum. If they don't answer your question, do a search. If that doesn't answer it, PM me and I'll unlock the thread. However, I won't be holding my breath waiting for that PM.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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