If one girl sees you with another girl, and then later asks if that girl is your girlfriend, is this a sign of interest? she brought it up hesitantly in the conversation, while trying to make it appear casual ("hey who was that girl? is she your girlfriend?"). everybody else who saw us either assumed we were friends or on a date.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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I get this all the time too. I think it depends on the girl. Some peopel are just really nosey. Personally, I figure the girl who is asking must have some interest, or why would she take the time to ask you? It might be different if the girl who is asking you is a close friend of yours, but if she hardly knows you then she proabably has some interest. Also, if one girl sees you with another girl, your value goes up, so she probably have more interst in you than she ever did before.
I wouldn't say she's my gf ever, especially if you're interested in the girl who's asking.
It puts the "taken" label on you, which is not easy to get rid of it.
Imagine yourself, would it be easier for you to DJ a girl who (you think) is with a boyfriend or with a friend?
On the other hand it puts them at ease, cause you "can't be hittin on her in front of your gf"
I prefer telling she's a friend.
It puts the "taken" label on you, which is not easy to get rid of it.
Imagine yourself, would it be easier for you to DJ a girl who (you think) is with a boyfriend or with a friend?
On the other hand it puts them at ease, cause you "can't be hittin on her in front of your gf"
I prefer telling she's a friend.
ToddRodd
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I'd just smile and keep walking.
It's none of her business and if she loses sleep over it, then that's on her.
I can't stand when woman front on showing you interest until when they see you with someone else, then it's a whole different story.
It's none of her business and if she loses sleep over it, then that's on her.
I can't stand when woman front on showing you interest until when they see you with someone else, then it's a whole different story.
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Yep, its a sign. Any time a girl asks you personal questions, especially involving your relationship status, its a sign of at least some IL.
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ToddRodd
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Wish, that girl ain't going nowhere.... especially after seeing you with someone. The ball's in your court. 