"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she worth waiting around for?

thekcguyme

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Ok so I've went out with this chick a couple times now and she always seem to have a great time. Well Last week aparently she went to the hospital. She texted me while she was there saying that can't wait to see me again and will call me as soon as she gets out. It's been a few days now and I'm pretty sure she isn't in the hospital because she has logged onto the dating site we met on. Do you think maybe she is just a player or something? I'm thinking about just forgetting about her all together now. I gave her a call today to see how she was feeling, but she didnt answer. I have plenty of other chicks to hang with, but I felt like I had more of a connection with this one. Just not sure what I should do now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thekcguyme

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k I finally got a hold of her on the dating site. She told me her phone was out. She also told me she had like a couple dinner dates and other stuff, but she still wants to get together with me soon. I guess she is a bit of a player. So I'm just gonna do my own thing and keep my options open!
 

Daniel1099

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take it easy bro

if you had other girls you were talking to you wouldnt even be worrying about this broad.

always keep your options open. dont commit unlesss she REALLY likes you and you REALLY like her. then take it farther
 
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