"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is She Trying To Get My Attention?

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I'm pretty sure this girl is into me but I wanted to make sure of something. I've read a lot of stuff on body language and about how when a woman preens, it means she's trying to get your attention. Well, one day we were sitting in the break room together just making small talk and she took her hair down, flipped it back and then put it back up again. Is this considered preening? I should add that this isn't the only signal she's given me. This has been going on for several months now. I mean I catch her checking me out all the time. There's been lots of eye contact amongst other things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why is this crap? I think it's a valid question. Isn't that what this forum is for?
 
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onemorerobot said:
I mean I catch her checking me out all the time. There's been lots of eye contact amongst other things.
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Stop there! What are you waiting for? No excusses just go for it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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somebody said on these boards that everything is a IOI and everything is not an IOI. I don't really have time to play like that anymore so if she likes me cool if not fvck it
 
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all you need is your senses.. forget everything.
 
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