"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is she testing me?

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Been dating this girl for a couple of weeks, she was seeing someone else. Since she started dating me she dumped her boyfriend, he was her ex before.

Now, this ex is the son of her ophtalmologist and that is how the got back together.

Since she has been with me everything has been fine and she shows lots of interest.

Monday she went to see her ophtalmologist and she said they went on Tuesday to have a cup of coffee. I did not say anything, but the situation does bother me.....why would she do that?.

Now, I don´t want to appear insecure. My bet is that she told me what she did to test me.

Do you think its better to let it slip or let her know I noticed and gauge her reaction?.

TIA.

Hugo
 

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How disrespectful. She didn't even take into consideration your feelings when she went out for "coffee" with her ex-boyfriend.

What is she going to do to piss you off next? (behavior tends to repeat itself)...

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She went to have a cup of coffee with her ex's father. Why would she tell me that?.

If she went with her ex she would be long gone by now.
 

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yeah...

play it cool now. MOST important - don't get mad on her, or start questioning about that. If she's interested in you, this just will rise you in her eyes...

p.s.- however, if she isn't testing you, it's good sign, that she's honest with you, and doesn't try to hide something.
 
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