"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is she rejecting me?

123kill!!

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I need to be detailed so don't mind reading, and excuse my english and grammar.
I asked a girl for hangout today, here's how it goes. I told her that i wanted to tell her something and we should go to somewhere more quiet to talk(The class's really loud), she followed me outside and i told her that i wanted to hangout with her this weekend, she thought for 2 seconds and she told me she has a lot to do this weekend and she said sorry, i asked why she's so busy(smiling at the same time to keep my dignity), she said she has dance class on saturday(which is actually true) and she also has tutor class(cause she did bad on her test) and club activity for the rest of the weekend, she said she barely has any free time now and it's really painful, maybe if she did well on her next test she will have some free time on her weekends, she was smiling the whole time because i was smiling, she didn't know that i was falling apart inside. She wasn't making much of eye contact with me(she never really make much eye contact with me) and her tone was rather tensed(which is the same as the tone she ussually have when talking to me).
But i'm still confused, i was pretty sure she likes me, and two of my friends(one guy and one girl, both had experience with relationships) and they both said that i should have made it clear that the hangout's more like a date, and she's too busy for a hangout but not a relation with me. Is it true? Is there any solutions to it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Greasy Pig

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Classic friend zone move. Women rarely say "No" to a date request, they'll just make excuses.
The fact she didn't make a counter offer should tell you that she's not interested.
Sorry bro, cut your losses and invest your time and emotions on a girl who really wants to be with you.
 

omega05

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Spend time on yourself so you don't have to come on a forum and ask if a girl is rejecting you. How are you with girls in general?
 

Purefilth

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yeah man, its a NO. She's not interested.
 

thevilittletroll

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if she was attracted to you, she would find time to go out with you no matter how busy she says she is. work on your attraction game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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VladPatton

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No need to fall apart, man. When they is an excuse with no counter offer, it is pretty much a done deal. Man up, act like nothing happened next time you see her, and keep moving forward with other girls, school, life.

This is common battlefield injury and should not be looked at as defeat.
 
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