Is she really having an orgasm every time we have sex? Or.....

[pvf94]

I know its harder for a woman to get off then a man....or so I've heard/experienced.

The first two times I had sex with this girl she didn't have an orgasm. She is now my exclusive girlfriend of 3 months.

Every single time after that (roughly at least 50 times) she has gotten off...and not just once but twice or three times even. Or so she says she does.

She can only get off when she is on top and rubbing a certain way.... ****oral orgasms from what I can tell by the way I have to move with her to get her off. Like deep penetration combined with vigorous and consistent grinding.

On one hand I can believe it because she gets off in a similar fashion each time and I can tell what will put her over the edge....like if were doing it a certain way and its only been 5/10 minutes she'll tell me to slow down or switch it up because she doesn't wanna come yet. She says this because she gets tired after she cvms. Is this normal for a woman? I thought they were supposed to get some sort of energy after.

The thing that gets me is I get her off guaranteed every time....as long as she is on top. Maybe she just knows how to work her body well enough to replicate an orgasm in a certain way each time? as long as I'm positioned correctly and doing what I've been doing. She said she has never experienced such consistency with a guy because they always finish too quick.

Some things of notice would be

She tells me usually when she is about to get off....
She starts to pant and lose control of kissing me
She stiffens up a bit
After the "orgasm" is over she falls down basically breathing heavy and she is just out of energy and wants to lay around for a bit before jumping into round 2 or 3.
I think I've noticed her face/chest getting a little flushed

One thing I haven't really noticed is any sort of tight contractions in her vagina while she is coming. She said she can feel it pulse but I can't lol.

She grips me tightly or hides her face.
smiles after and seems sort of hazy/glassy eyed.


Could she be faking it with all of this? Or is it possible that I am literally getting this girl off every single time we fvck?? I find that hard to believe but maybe thats because I don't hold enough security within myself to be capable of this. She promises she is not faking it and wouldn't fake it because she wants an orgasm just as bad as me.

Input fellas?

 

[boomerick]

I hate to sound like a caveman but....

If you're gettin off, she keeps comming back to belly up and she's agreeible otherwise why overthink it?????

If she's fakin' its her problem isn't it???

As far as the whole confidence deal goes -----She's more likely to leave you or have problems with you due to your worrying about her orgasms than her not actually having orgasms

Enjoy yourself !!!!!

Pound away!!!!

She'll come around (so to speak)

Over and Out.

 

[pvf94]

i guess because I don't like to be lied to? Lol.

 

[boomerick]

If you have an idea that possibly she can't have sex right (or what you feel is correct) AND is also possibly being less than truthfull with you maybe you are having second thoughts about your choice to be in a LTR......

Should you, maybe, reconsider who / what you are commiting to????

Again probably too much analisis............

I'll return to my first response.......Pound away !!

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

hmm a couple things I want to mention..

First off I would say no she is not faking it.

You seem to know the body language of a woman who is aroused. You mentioned all the big signs they will give off.
The fact that you cannot feel her vag muscles contract does not mean they are not contracting, your c@ck isnt the most sensitive thing to the touch when you compare it to your fingers or other body parts. If your wearing a condom it will only make things harder to feel. She may also have weak muscles unless she does pc exersises often.

So just because you cant feel her contract does not mean she is not orgasming.

The grinding that she does is consistant with a ****oral orgasm and it should be noted that ****oral orgasm is much easier to reach than from penetration or g-spot orgasm.

You shouldnt be surprised that you can get her off! If you and her are up for the challenge then I would suggest to try to give her a g-spot orgasm and see how she likes that.

And at the end of your post you mentioned how she promised shes not faking it.. Your not obsessing over this are you? You definitely dont want to make her feel any pressure when it comes to having an orgasm. You will ruin the fun if your always asking her if shes enjoying it and if shes faking.

 

[pvf94]

I asked her twice because she seemingly died on me and became immobile lol. then I jokingly asked if she faked it like some woman do to stroke my ego. That was it.

I don't obsess over it, its rainy out I'm bored and I got to thinking....she cums more then I do! Figured I'd ask the guys here at sosuave if it sounded far fetched.

I like the input though, puts my mind at ease and I feel a lot more confident. Which can only mean one thing.....shes gonna be getting even more. XD

keep it coming guys interesting reads here.

 

[Sandow]

I don't think there's any reason why she would lie to you. Sounds like she's getting off.

That being said, I think its pretty rare these days for girls to fake orgasms. Honestly I don't really care if she gets off every time. If its been awhile then I'll feel bad and do what I can. Yea there's no reason for her to lie and say she's getting off 2 to 3 times every time you guys do it. So it sounds real.

 

[Kailex]

If she's not complaining, why do you care?

This is one of the few times women will be overt, or at least in my experience, they will be. And if she's faking 2 to 7 orgasms, that's her own fault. I could see her maybe faking ONE, but that many?

You're doing it right, now stop asking here, and do it again.

And STOP asking her if she's faking it. Good lord.

 

[OFWHAP]

Honestly, I don't know if there is a sure-fire way to ever know for sure. I've had girls tell me they can fake just about every aspect of an orgasm. I wouldn't be insecure about it though. Every girl fakes orgasms.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Input fellas?

You think too much. Fvck more, think less.

 

[bigjohnson]

Some women get there really easy, it's a myth that women are difficult to get off.

 

[pvf94]

lol ok ok I got it. She's probably not faking. And as long as she knows her body well enough it can't be that hard to give her consistent ****oral orgasms during intercourse. lol...either way this girl has a bigger sex drive then I do. should have been my first indicator of realism.