"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is she pregnant? Im scared ****less right now...

eaglez1177

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Hey everyone...I've been going out with my gf now for about 4 months, and we started having sex at about the 3 month mark. We've done it about 6 or 7 times, including last night as well. This morning when my gf woke up, she was really worried and started freaking out because she felt really nauseaus when she woke up and she felt really dizzy. Its now 4:25 pm and shes still feeling dizzy and weird. She says her period is supposed to be tomorrow, but she says she can't even really feel it coming. I guess the good part may be that she hasnt completely missed her period. I mean whenever we do it I check the condom pretty often to make sure it hasnt broken. I mean I think i woulve realized if it broke right? Like when i take it off i think i wouldve seena rip.

Im like totally freaking out over this right now. Can someone please try to reply with something useful and encouraging cuz im just totally scared ****less right now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Condoms are 99% effective... You might be part of that 1%.

You should get her to take the pill.
 

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It's probably nothing as I believe you can't feel pregos until a while, though periods next day so idk, but get her to take a morning-after pill if you or her are worried. I think a high dose of bc pills is similar, but don't go oding.
 

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First off, calm the hell down. If you always use condoms, you're fine. Women feel nauseaus all the time, especially around thier rag time. And, when they are having sex regularly, it delays their period, or makes it irregular. Also, i have noticed that girls, especially younger ones always pull the pregnancy scare bullsh!t, I think it's because they like a lil drama in their lives and want to see thier man freaked out, for no reason. Jus chill, if she's about 2 weeks late on her rag, then start to worry.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Stress can cause her to miss a period or be late. So, tell her to calm down. Second, You don't get morning sickness that quick.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay phewwwww. Thank you SO much everyone that just calmed me down a ****load.

And yes we use condoms every single time and i check the condom once or twice just to make sure it hasnt broken. And plus I like always pull out of her whenever im about to come (i think i didnt pull out like maybe once or twice).

It's 10:00pm now and shes saying she feels really tired and nauseaus still. She took a nap earlier and woke up about two hours ago. Then she took her temperature and it came in at 100 degrees. So i guess maybe thats a good thing since it could indicate that shes prolly just legit sick and its not a pregnancy. Maybe shes just gettin sick at the wrong time...and she still says she doesnt really feel her period coming like she hasnt had any cramps
 
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