"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she playing mind games??

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So i,m currently fuking my ex..

I wouldn't even dream of getting into a relationship with her.. i simply bang her once a week, wipe my ****k and send her home..

Just recently she started telling me, that her ex wants to have sex with her.. and she has turned down sex from other guys, for me.


My guess is she is testing me to see how i react, if i get jealous or get butt hurt..

She wants to find out if i still care for her..

So when she told me all this, i did not care one bit... i just told her, what she does is non of my concern.


In the future, how should i react to her trying to get me jealouse????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ignore and deflect. It's a jealousy ploy making herself sound desirable.
 

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GS750 said:
Ignore and deflect. It's a jealousy ploy making herself sound desirable.
I told her she can ****k him if she wants... aslong as i can come and watch haha...


In the future i will ignore and deflect anything she throws my way..

She is dying to get a reaction out of me, and to make me jealous.. truth is.. she is hot, but i dont give a fuk about her anymore..

She was an awful girlfriend when i was with her.. now i just want to bamg her, and see other chicks too..
 

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Any more tips and advice on how to deal with her, mentioning other men???
 

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soulforge said:
Any more tips and advice on how to deal with her, mentioning other men???
Agree and Amplify.

If she says "so and so wants me" pretend like you're concerned about the guy. "Hopefully you show him a good time." Things like that. I would also steer the conversation elsewhere in case she won't shut up about it.

Never, ever show even the slightest bit of jealousy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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G_Govan said:
Agree and Amplify.

If she says "so and so wants me" pretend like you're concerned about the guy. "Hopefully you show him a good time." Things like that. I would also steer the conversation elsewhere in case she won't shut up about it.

Never, ever show even the slightest bit of jealousy.

Well she told me that her ex has offered her sex... i told her you should have gone for it... infact i said, invite me over to watch lol


I couldn't give two fuks about her banging another dude.. infact i,m trying to get her to take part in a 4sum with me..

She is trying her best to get a reaction out of me.. but i will not show her any kindof jealousy at all
 
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