I'm bewildered by this. I don't go chasing a lot of girls mainly because I'm on campus all day everyday and do not have time but I am draw to this girl. Anyways, we met in bad in September. We've chatted a lot and I've kino'd (not sure of this punctuation) since the first time we talked. ~3 weeks ago, we went to lunch. It was raining so we shared an umbrella and I put my arm around her to stay close to the umbrella. Also rubbed her leg near her knee when I was taking her home. She didn't budge my hand and she appeared to have the best of time when she left with a big smile on her face.
Last week we chatted a little and she asked about me touching her and gave what I thought were playful responses but I have deleted the messages. On a side note, we both are taken.
I asked her to hang out again but she got sick then another time I never heard back from her. She sent me a message I realize now I might have been a tad pushy before. I'm not exactly sure what to send back to the message I received. I was expecting no message at all and for her to remove me as a facebook friend.
Current facebook message:
Me: "Hi. Hope all is well. If you do not wish to be friends it would be nice to hear rather than be ignored. You're kind enough to have the decency to tell me. If it has anything to do with me not responding to your message Saturday night, I got wrapped up in my project. For that, I apologize. If I do not hear back from you it was a pleasure making your acquittance."
Her: "Sorry for the delay in response -- I spent all night in Moody Tuesday night and didn't get online at all yesterday except for two seconds before my jury. It's not that I don't want to be your friend, but I can't help but feel uncomfortable because you did act inappropriately, whether you believe you did or not. The fact that you seem to think your actions were completely appropriate makes me feel even weirder about it, you know? Surely you can understand why I would feel this way."
If you can help please chime in. Don't respond with anything that doesn't help, such as bashing me for cheating.
Last week we chatted a little and she asked about me touching her and gave what I thought were playful responses but I have deleted the messages. On a side note, we both are taken.
I asked her to hang out again but she got sick then another time I never heard back from her. She sent me a message I realize now I might have been a tad pushy before. I'm not exactly sure what to send back to the message I received. I was expecting no message at all and for her to remove me as a facebook friend.
Current facebook message:
Me: "Hi. Hope all is well. If you do not wish to be friends it would be nice to hear rather than be ignored. You're kind enough to have the decency to tell me. If it has anything to do with me not responding to your message Saturday night, I got wrapped up in my project. For that, I apologize. If I do not hear back from you it was a pleasure making your acquittance."
Her: "Sorry for the delay in response -- I spent all night in Moody Tuesday night and didn't get online at all yesterday except for two seconds before my jury. It's not that I don't want to be your friend, but I can't help but feel uncomfortable because you did act inappropriately, whether you believe you did or not. The fact that you seem to think your actions were completely appropriate makes me feel even weirder about it, you know? Surely you can understand why I would feel this way."
If you can help please chime in. Don't respond with anything that doesn't help, such as bashing me for cheating.