"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is she playing me?

SnapOutOfIt

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Ok I have this chic I see once a week she is always aksing me to buy her stuff I refuse but I still get to f!ck her, she goes on about past shags she's had to me to try and make me jealous I think i dont kno! this girl wont get seeing me cos she said she would probably be unfaithful :s but she also goes on about she doesnt meet any guys ever! so is she just taking the piss out of me! and shud i carry on cos of the fact I still get Pussie??? Another thing she never lets me kiss her on the lips cos she says "its sloppy" hmm is she ****ed up or what?

hope it makes sense!!!!:woo:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joekerr31

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no, you're f*cked up for not seeing that this chic is obviously f*cked up.

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It would help if you wrote in English but I think the bottom line is you are getting sex but its high maintenance sex.

Just don't get attached to her and give it up when you can't take it anymore.
 

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That's a personal decision. If you like her and all the sex, then stay. If you don't really care about her, then find someone else.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ouch dude, please dump this broad and find someone who appreciates you for being you and not using you like a vibrator.
 
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