"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is She Playing me? What's my Next Move?

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Bear with me. I want to learn from it.

Met her online. Second date we had sex. Then when I text her two days later she says "I am so glad you texted me, you made my day".

Two days later we randomly text at night for a hookup on a Monday.

So I text her on Wednesday about something amusing she responds "OMG I can't wait to tell you about the whole story". I reply "Cool tell me about it on Friday".

No response. I got drunk on Thursday at 1am and just text a "?".

Then Friday at 1:40 she says "Sorry I have to work tomorrow so Im staying in tonight & going to bed early."

I respond "No sweat, I'm going to the beach Sunday. YOu should come."

No response until 1:03pm on Sunday "What time are you going. I'm going to my friends company party at 8."

MY ANALYSIS - She's blowing me off. She set a pole at 8pm to prevent spending the night or, if i reply she will say "Oh, that wont get home in time.".

Am I right? I am deciding how to respond. Or maybe not respond at all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks for your analysis. I'll take that advice. Anyone else with a comment?
 
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I think Dan08 is right. If I were you I wouldn't respond, and I'll bet she'll text you within the next few days.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My bad. I thought it would be easier to start a fresh thread than add-on to an existing one. Thanks for the advice.
 
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CaConfused said:
Bear with me. I want to learn from it.

Met her online. Second date we had sex. Then when I text her two days later she says "I am so glad you texted me, you made my day".

Two days later we randomly text at night for a hookup on a Monday.

So I text her on Wednesday about something amusing she responds "OMG I can't wait to tell you about the whole story". I reply "Cool tell me about it on Friday".

No response. I got drunk on Thursday at 1am and just text a "?".

Then Friday at 1:40 she says "Sorry I have to work tomorrow so Im staying in tonight & going to bed early."

I respond "No sweat, I'm going to the beach Sunday. YOu should come."

No response until 1:03pm on Sunday "What time are you going. I'm going to my friends company party at 8."

MY ANALYSIS - She's blowing me off. She set a pole at 8pm to prevent spending the night or, if i reply she will say "Oh, that wont get home in time.".

Am I right? I am deciding how to respond. Or maybe not respond at all.
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I wouldn't bother responding at all.

If she wants to see you again she has your number. Shes a big girl. She can text you.

And if she does? Next time keep the text brief and let her be the last to send a reply. Also DO NOT ask her to go with you someplace anymore. Let her ask what you're doing etc. And you simply respond but don't invite her. Let her put in the effort to come on her own.

Unfortuantely no one can control anyone. In the seduction community most are either looking for advice they want to hear or some magic bullet that will always work with every chick every time.

You have to decide on your own if the advice makes sense whether you want to hear it or not and ESPECIALLY if a chick playing a power play/ puppet move is even worth it rather than dropping the nonsense and putting in work to find better chicks who don't hand challenges we unfortunately (all of us) will not win everytime.
 
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Yep. It's Tuesday, the ignored message she sent was 1pm Sunday.

Also notice the dating site we're on that she hasn't been active in a week.

Makes me think maybe she met someone else right after me, (hell I banged her after another online meeting she had - we laughed about it Monday of last week).... and maybe shes pursuing that guy.

Was a bit surprised she hasn't been active on the site.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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