Is she playing hard to get?

[Snowman23]

I got this girls number from a bar like 6 months ago, we used to work together, but we never talked... now I never ASKED for her number, she gave it to me as my friend and I were about to leave the bar. so I call her like 3 days later, and ask if shes free on the weekend, she says yeah... blah blah, I drunk dialed her a few times, and we never ending up meeting anywhere.

I called her on a off like once a week, but she never answered. anyway tonight at a party I dialed her number from my friends phone... and she answered. I was like "Hey u never answered my calls" she didn't know who it was since I called from a friends number... once I told her she was like "what did I tell you about calling me? I'm avoiding you for a reason." I was surprised she said that.

my question is why did she even volunteer her number? we were just talking, I never even asked her for it.

how should I persue this?

 

[azrael]

delete her # and forget about her?:yes:
also what did she told you about calling her? why is she avoiding you?

the only reason she pick up is because it was not your number.

 

[bukowski_merit]

I got this girls number from a bar like 6 months ago, we used to work together, but we never talked... now I never ASKED for her number, she gave it to me as my friend and I were about to leave the bar. so I call her like 3 days later, and ask if shes free on the weekend, she says yeah... blah blah, I drunk dialed her a few times, and we never ending up meeting anywhere.

I called her on a off like once a week, but she never answered. anyway tonight at a party I dialed her number from my friends phone... and she answered. I was like "Hey u never answered my calls" she didn't know who it was since I called from a friends number... once I told her she was like "what did I tell you about calling me? I'm avoiding you for a reason." I was surprised she said that.

my question is why did she even volunteer her number? we were just talking, I never even asked her for it.

how should I persue this?

who knows why she gave it to you; but a woman giving you her number (volunteering) or not - does not mean you're dating or even that there's attraction... there's plenty of reasons and there's plenty that could have happened in the time she gave it to you and the time you called her...

She owes you nothing, and calling a woman from another persons phone to see if she answers is childish... in fact, it's childish if you have some kind of a relationship with her... it's downright creepy if you don't!

 

[Jaggs]

She thought you were creepy.

 

[Vypros]

She gave you her number because she thought you were interesting. She's avoiding your calls because you proved to be the opposite.

Forget about her. She's not playing hard to get, she doesn't want to talk to you.

In fact, whenever you think a girl is playing hard to get, it's time to move on. Ain't no p*ssy worth jumping through that many hoops for.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

chicks are weird maybe she got a man and he wanted to know who was calling so she played it off like you were stalking her so she wouldnd have to explain why she was givin men her # @ the bar. find another.

 

[sodbuster]

If she sprayed you in the face with mace,would you think she was playing hard to get? WHY would she tell you to stop calling? WHY wouldn't you listen? Get the hint.