Hi,
I am dating with a girl for the last 3, 4 weeks. In the beginning things were going pretty fine until one day when we planned a date but the day we supposed to meet she told me that ''she has severe headache and she cannot meet me today. she was at work that day'' Anyhow I did not reply her at all and acted as I am dead, In the afternoon she sent me messages for sorry but I did not reply. Next day early she sent me messages again saying that'' for men head ache is excuse but she really wanted to see me but because of this head ache she couldn't'' Anyhow I remained silent, in the night she sent me again couple of messages that why I am not responding to her and how I am doing. That time I sent her message that I am v fine and doing v well. Next day she suggested to meet again. We met and that day(this Friday) we had sex for the first time. It was our 4th date. Anyhow she was happy and told me that she wants to see me tomorrow again and I said lets see.
Anyhow yesterday in the morning she invited me to come at her place for lunch at 13:00. I said Ok. She also told me that she is leaving for other city to see a concert with her friend but she said she will leave at 15:00 so we will have almost 2 hours. I agreed. Right after 20mins she sent me the message that her plans are changed and she is leaving early for the concert as they want to do some shopping. I said nothing and remained silent once again. She sent me sorry messages but I did not reply.
I was in the bar last night and she sent me the message that she is coming back home but I did not say anything. Than after few hours I saw her with her friend in a bar but I ignored her. After a while she came to my table and said Hi, I replied nicely, than she said she is sorry and bla blaa.... I said to her that, you should not be sorry, you did what you wanted to did, the only thing is I think I am unable to trust you, she was just listening, I told her that she really misunderstood me so I think these kind of things tell about the person. Anyhow she told me that she is happy to see me here but I just smiled and she left.
After she left I felt bad and when the bar closed I went to her and said her that I am sorry and I offer her to drop her home. She accepted and I dropped her home in my car. When I reached her home she said me thanks and told me that she knows that I cannot trust her, I told her that put yourself in my shoes and than tell me would you be able to trust me and she said she really knows what i meant but anyways I realized she wants to kiss me, so I kissed her and than I came back home.
I really want you guys, please tell me what I do? One important thing I should tell you that she is highly impressed by my looks and she told me from the first day that she likes me because I am handsome. (Personally I don't think so
) Is she really playing games or is it just her way of doing things? Personally I hate cancelling plans. On the other side I kind a like her but I can move on if you suggest or if you think this girl doesn't worth. Please suggest something. Should I contact her or should I wait for her to contact me after last night? Bunch of THANKS in advance.
I am dating with a girl for the last 3, 4 weeks. In the beginning things were going pretty fine until one day when we planned a date but the day we supposed to meet she told me that ''she has severe headache and she cannot meet me today. she was at work that day'' Anyhow I did not reply her at all and acted as I am dead, In the afternoon she sent me messages for sorry but I did not reply. Next day early she sent me messages again saying that'' for men head ache is excuse but she really wanted to see me but because of this head ache she couldn't'' Anyhow I remained silent, in the night she sent me again couple of messages that why I am not responding to her and how I am doing. That time I sent her message that I am v fine and doing v well. Next day she suggested to meet again. We met and that day(this Friday) we had sex for the first time. It was our 4th date. Anyhow she was happy and told me that she wants to see me tomorrow again and I said lets see.
Anyhow yesterday in the morning she invited me to come at her place for lunch at 13:00. I said Ok. She also told me that she is leaving for other city to see a concert with her friend but she said she will leave at 15:00 so we will have almost 2 hours. I agreed. Right after 20mins she sent me the message that her plans are changed and she is leaving early for the concert as they want to do some shopping. I said nothing and remained silent once again. She sent me sorry messages but I did not reply.
I was in the bar last night and she sent me the message that she is coming back home but I did not say anything. Than after few hours I saw her with her friend in a bar but I ignored her. After a while she came to my table and said Hi, I replied nicely, than she said she is sorry and bla blaa.... I said to her that, you should not be sorry, you did what you wanted to did, the only thing is I think I am unable to trust you, she was just listening, I told her that she really misunderstood me so I think these kind of things tell about the person. Anyhow she told me that she is happy to see me here but I just smiled and she left.
After she left I felt bad and when the bar closed I went to her and said her that I am sorry and I offer her to drop her home. She accepted and I dropped her home in my car. When I reached her home she said me thanks and told me that she knows that I cannot trust her, I told her that put yourself in my shoes and than tell me would you be able to trust me and she said she really knows what i meant but anyways I realized she wants to kiss me, so I kissed her and than I came back home.
I really want you guys, please tell me what I do? One important thing I should tell you that she is highly impressed by my looks and she told me from the first day that she likes me because I am handsome. (Personally I don't think so
) Is she really playing games or is it just her way of doing things? Personally I hate cancelling plans. On the other side I kind a like her but I can move on if you suggest or if you think this girl doesn't worth. Please suggest something. Should I contact her or should I wait for her to contact me after last night? Bunch of THANKS in advance.